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3 Things You Need To Heal To Manifest Love

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Are you ready to manifest love? Not so fast! Our romantic relationships are so important yet most of us don’t bother to heal our inner self to get ready for our next one. That means: we end up manifesting more of the stuff we don’t want instead of the stuff we do.

If you’re ready to get off the love rollercoaster with your dream partner, it’s crucial to do this healing work! Today I’m sharing the three areas you need to start working on now to shift your energy around love for once and for all!







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Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life




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The Beginner’s Guide To Subconscious Reprogramming Tools

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The Beginner's Guide To Subconscious Reprogramming Tools

The more I’ve learned about manifestation and the Law of Attraction, the more I’ve come to realize the importance that the subconscious mind plays in the equation.

After all, understanding your conscious mind is straightforward. It includes all the stuff you’re consciously deciding on, including your manifestation intentions: “I want to manifest $1000, a new boyfriend, etc”

It all seems so simple enough, right? I mean what could possibly be wrong with achieving those things?

However, your subconscious mind is the one who’s going to throw a wrench into your best-laid plans. As much as you desire the things you do, it probably does not see the world in the same way.

The first problem is that your subconscious brain will always interpret any of your new intentions and goals as scary things that it needs to protect you from. Its main job is to keep you alive but it does that by constantly scanning the world around you for potential “danger”. Unfortunately, it will always categorize anything new as potentially dangerous–and try to prevent you from actually doing it!

Second, the subconscious mind is where we hold old patterns and programming.

This is mostly stuff that happened to us when we were children but it can also old patterns from more recent events (especially if those events were intense or repeated).

These things include unhealed childhood traumas, limiting beliefs, societal programming and basically anything you created an unhealthy narrative around.

But while those things are definitely not your fault (because they were programmed into you) it is up to you to start shifting and changing them.

After all, no one can get inside your mind and do this work for you! You can’t outsource your yoga practice nor can you outsource your inner healing.

Now that you understand this process (and how important it is!) I’m sure you’re excited to get started with it! So today I’m sharing 5 tools to help you start reprogramming your subconscious mind for the life you actually want.




5 Tools For Subconscious Reprogramming


Subconscious Reprogramming Tool #1:

EFT


EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is a simple and effective way to rewire your subconscious. But as a big bonus? It’s also free.

That means you can put down your phone right now and do an EFT session to start rewiring whatever it is that you want to heal and reprogram.

EFT simply involves you tapping on some key pressure points while working through a specific issue that you want to work through. (Go look it up on YouTube and follow a session there!) It’s one part affirmations and one part energy work (similar to acupressure). Tapping works by letting old feelings surface and replacing them with new ones.

I’ve been known to bust out some EFT while on walks around my hood so trust me when I say you can do it anywhere! This one’s key for your self-care toolbox simply for its ease and flexibility.


Subconscious Reprogramming Tool #2:

NLP


NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is a powerful healing modality that lets you directly communicate with your subconscious mind. Basically, your subconscious brain works in a completely different way than your conscious mind. Instead of logic and words, it operates in pictures and feelings.

This disconnect is why it’s hard to gain control of your subconscious mind. While your conscious mind speaks one language, your subconscious literally speaks another. But when you can start communicating to it the right way, you suddenly have the ability to change its old programs.


Subconscious Reprogramming Tool #3:

Hypnosis


Rest assured, hypnosis isn’t about making someone bark like a dog! It’s not about mind control (or humiliation). But it does offer another wonderful way for us to communicate with our subconscious mind.

Hypnosis works by taking your brainwaves from their (normal consciousness) Beta state down into our Theta (deep relaxation and meditation) state. This is the state of consciousness you naturally occupy just before falling asleep (the bridge between the conscious and unconscious sleep state).

From that deep brainwave state, we’re already naturally more receptive to make changes in the deep part of our subconscious mind. Personally, I love to use hypnosis in conjunction with NLP to truly anchor in the healing and reprogramming required.


Subconscious Reprogramming Tool #4:

Affirmations


Affirmations might sound a little Basic Spiritual B*tch. But there’s a wonderful reason for their perennial popularity: they work. (If you do them the right way that is!)

Affirmations work best with repetition and with emotional charge. That’s how everything gets into our subconscious mind in the first place. So we can also use affirmations to program what we actually want to believe.

The downside is that they take a while to work. Also, sometimes affirmations can actually get in the way if they end up creating cognitive dissonance. For example, if you’re trying to lose weight and you try using the affirmation “I’m so happy for my size ten body.” However, you’re not actually there yet and the more you think about it the more resentful you become of where you’re currently at. In that case, the negative emotions that you’re accidentally triggering will end up doing more harm than good.

To fix it, I’d suggest going to a neutral place first before jumping all the way to where you want to be. Affirmations really do work and if you’re looking for a long-term solution (or a modality that works with the others) this might be a great fit for you.


Subconscious Reprogramming Tool #5:

Journaling


Journaling is another powerful healing modality, albeit that might also suffer from its Basic Spiritual B*tch reputation. ???? And honestly, in my past I’ve never been that enthusiastic journaling. I went through phases but I never made it a Must-Do part of my morning routine–until very recently.

These days journaling is one of my Must-Have’s both for my own mental clarity and happiness and also for my manifesting practice. That’s because writing out your desires is not only an incredibly spiritual practice. But the very act of writing them down over and over again is a wonderful way to rewire your subconscious with some brand new beliefs.



So tell me: which subconscious reprogramming tools and techniques have you tried out yourself? Which one do you want to start incorporating into your routine next?




Subconscious reprogramming might sound scary or intimidating at first! But all of these tools I shared today are really just mimicking the way your brain has already learned things. Just remember that if you’re feeling stuck or in a rut that the blocks are probably in your subconscious! With a little love and attention, you can heal and reprogram so that you can move forward into what you truly want in life.



Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life



PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about subconscious manifestation blocks or this one about how to use your subconscious mind to manifest anything.




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Spiritual People + Money: 3 Beliefs You Need To Heal

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Spiritual People + Money: 3 Beliefs You Need To Heal

Hey spiritual people! Are you struggling with money issues? It’s not a big surprise if you ARE! Many of us suffer from limiting beliefs around money that tell us we can’t be both spiritual and wealthy. Watch this video to find out the 3 beliefs you need to heal the MOST so you can finally drop your old money story and manifest abundance!







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Reparenting Series: “Be A Good Girl/Boy”

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Reparenting Series: "Be A Good Girl/Boy"

Did your parents ever tell you to behave and just “be a good girl/boy”? This is another common childhood experience that can leave us with some very negative and untrue limiting beliefs about the world! Today we’re unpacking some of the erroneous beliefs you might have learned from this so you can begin your self-healing process!







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3 Things You Need To Heal To Live Your Best Life!

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3 Things You Need To Heal To Live Your Best Life!

Did you know? You might be walking around going through life right now trying really hard not to let something important in your life fully heal. We all tend to do this by pushing our emotions away and pretending we’re okay. But the fact is, you need time to heal in order to move forward as your best self and live your best life! In today’s video, I’m sharing 3 ways to do exactly that!









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Right now, your SOUL is calling for your magic.S Right now, your SOUL is calling for your magic.So are you ready to answer the call?I know life doesn't seem so magical at times.And I also know that when you're down or feeling defeated it's REALLY EASY to forget one simple thing.The magic is IN you.And it always has been!Every time we tell ourselves that we're not strong enoughOr good enough or smart enoughOr that we need someone or something ELSE to swoop in and "fix" usWe're opting out of using OUR power.But none of that stuff means that you AREN'T magic.It simply means that you've FORGOTTEN and fallen out of touch.But every day brings us a new opportunity to connect with our TRUTH.So what are YOU going to do with your magic today?How can YOU decide to change your life for the better, even if only by the tiniest degree?If you feel like sharing, drop me a comment below!And if you need a little help unlocking your magic, then reach out! I'm looking for a few special souls who are ready to undo their old ways of being so they can BLOSSOM into their dream life. Is that you? Send me a DM to learn more!
The present creates the past.Or, in other words, The present creates the past.Or, in other words, your STORY about the who, the what, the why IS the only thing that matters.Mindset work won't change the facts of course.It's not going to go back in time to change things or make other people suddenly see the light.(Damnit!)But it can change the person you BECAME because of what happened.Sometimes we close ourselves off to our own miracles because we're clinging so hard to those old stories.When we think that because the past is set in stone, our stories have to stay the same too.I get it though! I used to be SHOCKINGLY ATTACHED to my sob story, firmly stuck in victim mode.All the time DREAMING about where I wanted to go--and confused as to why I wasn't there yet.Fortunately (after a lot of STRUGGLE) I opened my mind to change, massive shifts and MIRACLES.That's why I can tell you that getting stuck in wishing things were different cuts us off from both our power in the present and our ability to process.So know this my beautiful soul: the only liberation we need is our own.When you get brave enough to finally DO that, your whole world really will change.(& PS if you need a little help creating your own miracle, I have a few coaching spots open! Wanna learn more about how to apply this powerful work to your life? Send me a DM & let's chat!)
And now for a quick message from your Higher Self: And now for a quick message from your Higher Self:Love yourself enough to LET IT GOBreathe deep & have a happy Sunday my beautiful babes!
You are magic itself.And your desires have meani You are magic itself.And your desires have meaning for the WORLD.So if you really KNEW that you were here to feel happy and do the things that bring you joy, what would you be doing differently?If you’re like me, it’s too easy to forget our true divine nature.It’s too easy to believe our worries and limitations more than we trust ourselves and this beautiful journey.But if you could trust your magic for just a moment, what would change?If you knew your dreams where a matter of WHEN not if, how would this moment be different?All the magic you ever needed is IN you already. All you need to do right now is TUNE into it!
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn
Identity shifting is KEY to manifesting.Because Identity shifting is KEY to manifesting.Because you ALWAYS manifest from your subconscious mind.Meaning you WILL play out old programs and ideas over and over again.Until YOU decide enough's enough! And do the work to REPROGRAM your mind to reflect what it you want and who you need to be.But sometimes, this work doesn't FEEL like it's doing anything.Those little tiny shifts on the inside are close to invisible--which might even make you doubt that it's happening at all.But trust me gorgeous, it IS.Keep taking tiny steps forward.Keep doubling down on who you WANT to be.TRUST the process and understandThat little by little, bit by bitIt all adds upUntil one day you look around and realize: I'm already there.
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn

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