Feng Shui for Love: 5 Tricks & Tips
Last Updated on February 14, 2026
Wondering if you can use Feng Shui to attract money? You’re not alone! For years, the top two requests I get for help with Feng Shui are for love and money.
Which only makes sense because they are two of our most basic needs. Everyone always wants more!
Since I’ve already tackled Feng Shui for money and Feng Shui for the bedroom, today I thought I’d delve into the world of Feng Shui for love and manifesting relationships.
Love energy is great to play around with, if you’re in a relationship or not. Many long-term relationships can benefit from some fresh energy as well!
So whether you’re long paired up or single and looking, let’s get into the love-enhancing feng shui tips.
Feng Shui for Love: 5 Tricks & Tips
Feng Shui For Love Tip #1: Find The Command Position
Command position? Nope, I’m not going 50 Shades on you here I swear!
Instead of a sexual position, the command position is an important concept in Feng Shui which applies to furniture, like your desk and bed.
Using the command position in Feng Shui simply puts you in charge of the space and the energy in it. So take charge of your love life by using it in your bedroom.
Think of how you choose a seat in a restaurant. Typically, you’d go for one with your back to the wall to also give you a view of those entering the restaurant, without being directly in front of the door. It’s the same for your bed.
Placing your bed in a command position might require a little creative placement! The bed should not be directly facing the door, but not directly next to it. Just make sure you have a clear view of the door while you’re lying in it.
RELATED: Read more about the masculine and feminine sides of the bed in Feng Shui here!
Feng Shui For Love Tip #2: Purchase Pairs
When it comes to feng shui for love, pairs of objects are awesome to include in any space, especially for your bedroom. This is a great way to set the intention to bring in a partner – or to keep one around, if need be.
In order to attract a partnership, always opt for pairs of lamps, pillows, tchotkes, and even nightstands. Buy or display in multiples of two wherever you can. If you need more than two, do your best to avoid trios as those symbolize three people. (Not ideal for monogamous people!)
While we’re at it, remember that placement matters too! It’s not enough to have two matching lamps. You also need to put one on each side of the bed to create balanced energy throughout the space.
Feng Shui For Love Tip #3: Check Your Relationship Corner
The far right-hand corner of your home when you’re standing in the front door looking inward, is your relationship corner in feng shui. Whether it’s in your bedroom or not, it’s another important place to look if you’re looking to attract (or keep) love
So take a look at yours to see if it needs some help. Clutter is an obvious no-no, but keep an open mind as you assess the objects there. Look at the symbols in the things you have on display. For example, maybe that black and white photo of a woman sitting alone on her bench is not such a great idea for this area as it symbolizes being alone.
Instead, go for images of couples or pairs of objects. Anything pink or red is good to include as are pairs of flowers (roses!) or candles (to create spark).
Read more about the Bagua (including a map!) right over here.
Feng Shui For Love Tip #4: Create Space
The Universe abhorrs a vacuum. That means: if you clear out some space, something new will swoop in to fill it up. You can use this in any area of your home, but the principle comes in handy for attracting love.
For example, if you clear some room in your closet, there might just be enough room there for a new partner to swoop on into the new space.
Sound crazy?
On a psychological level, the simple act of getting rid of some old pairs of jeans will prove to your brain that you’re ready to invite in a new partner. Think of the decluttering process itself as really being about integrating and accepting who we are right now, instead of holding onto the outdated past.
Often that means admitting to ourselves that certain dress sizes are now behind us or that styles have moved on. It’s a small mindset shift that can create a big result.
Clearing the clutter is about aligning ourselves 100% with who we are right now. And truly owning ourselves is magic.
Finally, it’s a strong clear invitation to the Universe that you are ready for the next chapter—whatever that might happen to be!
Feng Shui For Love Tip #5: Lighting
Always make lamps the preferred source of light in your bedroom, as opposed to overhead lighting. A light that hangs directly above the bed is thought to push away any good energy – and yet most beds I see are positioned directly underneath a light!
To combat this, rely on that pair of matching lamps as your primary source of light rather than the overhead. If you need more, get more! It’s difficult to overdo it when it comes to lighting.
You can also harness the power of the lamps in another way. Try turning on both of your bedside lamps at the same time each night, keeping them on for three hours at a minimum. Repeat this for 27 days and see the heating effect it has on your love life. (*wink*)
I hope you found this Feng Shui knowledge useful! And please don’t forget to share this article if you did.
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wauoo, good & nice info
I have a telescope is the far right corner of my bedroom. Is that bad Feng Shui?
Hi Renata! A telescope should be fine in that corner, unless the small end is pointed at your bed or desk. That would make it a Feng Shui “poison arrow”- a sort of invitation to concentrate some negative energy. Hope that helps!