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Jenn Stevens | Spiritual Life + Business Coach

Twin Flames Vs. Soulmates: The TRUTH About Love & Romance

by: Jenn

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Today’s unpopular spiritual opinion: there’s no such thing as a Twin Flame.

I know it’s super trendy right now in the spiritual world to talk about your Twin Flame. But 99% of the time I see people using the term “Twin Flame” to justify some very un-spiritual BS.

For example:

  • Perpetually returning to your ex (even though you can never seem to make it work)
  • Justifying bad (or even abusive) behavior
    • Waiting around for some person to notice you or pay more attention to you
    • Trying to turn a single date/one-night-stand into something more when the other person doesn’t seem interested “because you had a great connection”
    • Chasing someone after they ghosted you…etc. etc.



    If any of those scenarios sound familiar, then it’s a giant sign that you have some inner work to do. Your ideal romantic relationship won’t magically happen with a person who is treating you badly.

    The bigger question is why would you want to settle for that type of behavior? After all, you are the Conscious Creator of your life. YOU get to decide who gets access to your mental, emotional and physical space.

    Buying into this idea is incredibly limiting and bad for your self-esteem. It’s just a spiritual way of talking about the old idea of The One–an outdated idea that we would all do well to leave in the past.

    I know this isn’t a popular opinion. And some of you might click away before reading this right now!

    But if there’s just one of you out there that I can save from the Negative Emotional Rollercoaster that is a toxic relationship that you’re calling a Twin Flame, then this will have been worth it.

    So without further ado, let’s learn more about Twin Flames, Soulmates, and all the reasons you should throw this idea in the spiritual dust bin for once and for all.


    What Is A Twin Flame?


    The definition of a Twin Flame is that there is one soul separated into two physical bodies. It’s like spiritual twin-dom!

    Finding that one person who understands you completely is the romantic goal we’ve all been sold, but it really only feels good when that other person is around and invested! Otherwise, it feels pretty terrible to buy into this idea. (And this is the very definition of leaving your happiness in someone eles’s hands.)


    What Is A Soulmate?


    The definition of a soulmate is basically anyone who you’ve encountered through a previous incarnation. We all have a “spiritual family” so to speak: meaning, we cycle through each incarnation interacting with the same souls in different human forms.

    That could mean your mom in this lifetime was your husband in the last etc.

    These people are around you to help you work through your karmic (soul) lessons. They’re here (in part) to mirror you and test you.

    (Remember, we’re here to experience life, to solve problems, and to grow–not just to have everything be rainbows and unicorns 24/7.)

    The soulmate relationship is not always romantic. In fact, most of the time it isn’t. But the good news is you’ll find your soulmates everywhere: in your classroom, in your family home, in line for the bathroom in the club (lol!????). So please don’t ever feel that you’re doomed to loneliness while you go out and look for them or wait for them to find you.

    These people are an important part of your journey, whether they’re in your life for a long time or just a short moment. But you don’t have to search them out, as they’re already all around you.


    Why I Don’t Believe In Twin Flames


    Twin Flames: The Spiritual Perspective



    Twin Flames Don’t Exist In Non-Duality


    My spiritual beliefs can be boiled down to a non-dualistic perspective. That means I believe that we’re all source consciousness. You’ve cycled through actually being every person who’s alive now and everyone to ever exist (plus animals, plants etc.)

    From this perspective, everyone is a soulmate–and twin flames can’t exist. There is no singular perfect other half of your soul because you are everyone and everything. Part of your soul is split up but this one person is not the only other person who has it.


    The Twin Flame Concept Creates Scarcity Not Abundance


    I’m also always talking about the importance of choosing abundance over scarcity, only always. I equate abundance with love and scarcity with fear and lack. And every spiritual truth goes back to love and only love (as fear is something we create in our minds).

    So think about it: if you’re absolutely convinced that this one person (and only this one person) can fulfill you, then how is that going to shape your world if they’re either (a) not in it or (b) treating you terribly?

    Most people I see using the words Twin Flames to justify their situation are actually just living in fear and lack mentality. If they knew there were other ideal matches out there, why would they waste so much time and mental anguish trying to make a square peg fit?

    I will always challenge my students and clients to find the most loving perspective from which to create their reality. And most of the time, Twin Flames do not fit what’s really best for us.


    It Can Make You Manifest The Wrong Things


    I still get soooo many comments from people who just want to manifest this one specific person. Again, sometimes these people are absolutely convinced that the dude that just ghosted them (and is dating someone else) or the person who completely ignores them in public is their Twin Flame.

    Let’s get clear about two things:


    1. Manifestation can be manipulative AF.

    Trying to get someone to fall in love with you is fundamentally not respecting that person’s boundaries. Using magick or manifestation doesn’t absolve you from having a conscience. (Ahem! I see you girls trying to manifest becoming a billionaire. ????)



    2. We’re writing our own stories.

    What happens if you say “Hey Universe! I love this! I want more of this!” and the This that you’re talking about isn’t actually isn’t that great? Why amplify the vibes of something that isn’t meeting your standards? You’re never going to change them to be exactly who you want them to be, no matter how hard you try. But you can call more of them (or people of their ilk) into your life. Be real about whether or not that’s a good thing.




    Twin Flames: The Life Coach Perspective



    Twin Flames Perpetuate Low Self-Worth


    I see a lot of beautiful, smart, funny amazing women settling for peanuts in the relationship world and buying into a concept like Twin Flame only further enables this self-destructive behavior.

    Anxious, grasp-y, Choose Me energy is not a sign that you’re in your power! In fact, it’s giving all your happiness away to this other person.

    If things are going well, that might sound pretty good! But we never get to control anyone. Sometimes people just grow apart or figure out that they’re not as great a match as they previously believed.

    But if you’ve put all your hopes of happiness on this one person and they leave, then you are dooming yourself to feeling unhappy and unfulfilled forever.

    However, if you truly believed you were an amazing person, this one specific romantic relationship is longer the only barometer of your happiness. It’s simply a Nice To Have–an accessory for an already amazing life. And if the relationship at some point becomes no longer Nice To Have, then you can get yourself back out there and find one of the other (many!) amazing matches who are looking for someone just like you.

    Knowing your worth and always believing in the possibility of more is true abundance mentality when it comes to love–not chasing, settling, or manipulating.


    Twin Flames Are Actually Trama Bonding


    We’ve all had that magical instant romantic sensation: that feeling of knowing someone you just met way better than you actually do. “This feels so familiar! It must be meant to be.”

    It’s not that I don’t believe in magic coincidences. I definitely do, especially when it comes to love!

    But unfortunately, most of the time that Love At First Sight phenomenon is actually just Trauma Bonding.

    Trauma bonding happens when there’s something about this person that reminds you (on a deep hidden psychological level) of something you experienced in the past. This is uncomfortable to admit but true: most of us seek something in our partners that echoes something about our parents or primary caregivers.

    For example, think of the typical “Daddy Issues” (which are super common, and nothing to be ashamed of BTW!).

    Say a girl grows up with a father who’s a bit emotionally distant. Her attempts to feel securely loved as a child failed. But now she’s a grown-up and here comes a potential partner that also feels emotionally distant. Instead of becoming the big red flag it should be, it feels like home: because that’s what she experienced at home.

    But her subconscious brain is convinced that this time will be different. If I just try harder, lose some weight, become the perfect partner, then this person will love me in the way I’ve always wanted to be loved.

    But unfortunately, it rarely works out.

    (There are similar dynamics at play for the men too FYI! But I’ll speak more about that another time.)

    When we experience that familiarity, it’s so tempting to call it something like Twin Flame. But using that term will just typically blind you to the reality of the situation–which is not being treated well or settling for way less than what you want and deserve.


    Twin Flames Are An Immature And Unrealistic Romantic Perspective


    We still live in a society that tells us we need to be in a relationship to be a happy and successful adult. Many people would rather be in the wrong relationship rather than be single! The concept of the Twin Flame just further exacerbates this idea. When we truly believe that one person will just magically understand us and we’ll never feel lonely again, we’re setting ourselves up for a world of disappointment.

    We’re sold the idea that being a relationship or marriage is a guarantee that we’ll never feel lonely or misunderstood again. But take a casual poll of the married people and ask them if that’s actually true. As a former married person, I can assure you it’s not. Relationships are work. They’re actually our biggest spiritual assignments: meaning we’ll get handed all the stuff about ourselves that we’d rather not look at.

    The concept of Twin Flame downplays that whole idea. If your relationship should be just magically perfect, the brunt of the work falls on your partner (rather than on you). It also feeds into unhealthy ideas that you shouldn’t have to communicate your needs and boundaries and that the right partner should just magically anticipate all of that.

    Entering into a romance with those ideas is extremely childish and difficult for the other partner involved! Again, it goes to show that this idea is limiting as it gives all your power away.

    So what if instead of trying to find that one person who just magically get you without you doing any work you put your time and energy into figuring out how to communicate what you really want and need instead? As a bonus, learning this essential life skill will improve all of your relationships, not just your romantic ones.




    I hope this post today didn’t rain too much on your parade! Here’s the big takeaway: you are worthy and powerful, all on your own. You get to create the life you want in every moment–including the love you really want. When it’s truly right, you definitely won’t have to second-guess or force it to happen.



    Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life




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Creating Your Soul Medicine

by: Jenn

Creating Your Soul Medicine

It’s a fact! No one feels good in the exact same way. You can read all the advice you like from other people but when it comes down to it, yours is the only opinion that matters.

You didn’t come with a self-care manual. But you need one! Yet how many of us are acutely aware of what we really need when we’re feeling low or times are tough? That’s why the only real option is listening to your own needs and creating your own.

Most of us have not learned true self-care. Instead, we’ve mostly just learned how to cope–and coping often means running away from what we really want or hiding from our emotions entirely.

Your emotions might seem overwhelming and unmanageable in the moment but there really isn’t anything that you can’t handle. Running away only prolongs the problem. So instead of running away, why not learn how to manage them instead?

That’s not to say handling them will be comfortable. Many times it isn’t–and that’s really where self-care comes into play.

You have to walk the fine line between running away and wallowing. You have to be confronting-ly honest with what’s really going on inside of you (and not get caught up in how it looks on the outside). You might think you’re honest with yourself all the time! But it’s amazing how often we lie to ourselves and justify things that are not in our highest good.

But living without our alignment and authenticity always creates problems in the end.

(Sometimes ending with the situation that I like to call The Cosmic 2×4: a giant kick out of your comfort zone that ultimately puts you back in alignment.)

But you can create your own medicine: soul medicine to be specific. You have everything you need to heal yourself, even if you’re completely unaware of it at the moment.

So with all of that in mind, today I’m sharing some journalling questions that are designed to help you come up with your own unique version of soul medicine.


5 Questions To Create Your Own Soul Medicine


Soul Medicine Journaling Question #1:

Generally speaking, which situations stress you out?


Do you get overheated at work or with your partner? What kinds of situations set you off? Maybe you’re not good at receiving criticism in general or maybe you find yourself judging others and trying to tell them what to do. Think about your major blowups or breakdown moments. When you look beyond the surface, these events have a lot to teach us about ourselves.


Soul Medicine Journaling Question #2:

What emotions make you feel the most overwhelmed?


In general, which emotions are the ones you’re the most afraid of? For me, that’s anger in general. (Mostly because feeling anger inexplicably makes me want to cry! How embarrassing.) But knowing that I’m afraid to feel (and express anger) means that I can watch out for when that happens. It takes work to convince my subconscious mind that this is an emotion that I’m allowed to both experience and express. But running away from it or trying to suppress it has resulted in some bad situations for me in the past. Simple awareness is the first step in allowing me to avoid those same situations in the future.


Soul Medicine Journaling Question #3:

What where some times in your life where you ran away from your problems or dealt with them in unhealthy ways?


We’ve all done this so no shame here please! Personally, I’m specifically thinking of my mid-twenties self who after breaking up with my long-term boyfriend decided to spend most of the next two months in a bar. (!!!)

At the time I just thought I was making new friends and keeping busy. And I was keeping busy–keeping busy pushing all the pain and hurt I really felt underneath a firm layer of alcohol! Not so healthy obviously. I’m obviously older and wiser now but it’s still useful to look back at those times and see them for what they were. So I highly suggest looking at your own past for similar incidents. What times were you actually running away from something and why? How did the way you “dealt” with things work (or more likely) not work out for you?


Soul Medicine Journaling Question #4:

What are your buffering behaviors?


There are some buffering behaviors that are easy to identify: over-drinking, taking drugs, gambling, sex addiction etc. However, true buffering (ie. running away from our emotions) can also come up in some not-so-easy-to-see forms. This could be TV, video game or even Facebook addiction. It could be simply spending more time at the bar than you do the gym. It could even be booking a big vacation at a tenuous point in your personal or professional life. Be honest with yourself as you examine your behaviors. What could be taking up too much of your time and energy (and ultimately getting in the way of your dreams)?


Soul Medicine Journaling Question #5:

What are some things that make you feel good?


Now that you’ve developed a better understanding of your “negative” side, it’s time to take a look at the possible remedies. There are no magic cure-all’s–and if there were we’d rob ourselves of the important lessons that accompanied our experiences ( -style). But you don’t have to wallow in your pain either.

We all have things that we respond to positively, whether that’s watching stand-up on Netflix or going for a walk by the ocean. So even though you probably have a good idea already about what things feel good to you, please consciously write them down and make a list. What’s on your feel good list? What can you come back to in order to recharge and rejuvenate yourself?

Sometimes the answers to this aren’t as obvious as we initially assume! It’s common to realize that you actually don’t incorporate a lot of these activities into your normal routine (and if you make that discovery it’s then of course, time to change all of that!




So tell me: what are your unique triggers and patterns? And what helps you to feel better and work through tough emotions (in a healthy way)?


We all live different lives and have different strengths and weaknesses. Our happiness blueprint is uniquely our own. Becoming aware of where you need support and the ways in which you best receive support is key to living your best life. So please take your time with this and come up with your unique recipe for how to take care of you!

Good luck with this & please come back to share your findings!



Jenn Stevens | The Aligned Life




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Soul Contracts + Manifesting: The Truth About What You Can Control

by: Jenn

Soul Contracts + Manifesting: The Truth About What You Can Control

Soul Contracts + Manifesting: The Truth About What You Can Control | Are you wondering what you can and can’t control when it comes to manifesting? The truth is that while we can control a lot more than we think, we still can’t control everything. To help explain this, today I’m sharing the concept of soul contracts: what they are and how they affect your life.









Thank you so much for watching!

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Your Life Purpose: Untangling Your Mission, Passion + Career

by: Jenn

Your Life Purpose: Untangling Your Mission, Passion + Career

Your life purpose: it’s something we all strive for and think about. Yet not everyone knows what theirs really is!

I talk a lot about finding your mission and purpose in life. But almost every time I do I get messages from people who are more than a little freaked out.

They don’t like their jobs. They don’t know their passion. Finding their life purpose seems about as realistic as suddenly gaining the ability to fly.

If that sounds like you, then please know that I get it. I deeply understand what it’s like to now know what you’re supposed to do in life, to feel confused and un-buoyed, to feel like everyone else has it figured out except you.

We truly are all here on Earth for our own individual reasons. We each have a specific mission to fulfill. That also means we’re not meant to have cookie-cutter goals and similar life ambitions.

One of the reasons that many of us haven’t found our purpose is simply because we’ve been trained to believe we want something else.

The path to our life purpose is rarely as easy and straightforward as we’d like to believe! So this week I’m inspired to share my story along with a few tips on how to unravel your life purpose, your passion and your career (along with what the differences are).


My Life Purpose Story


Confession: I spent basically all of my twenties entirely confused and unsure of what to DO with myself and my life.

I was smart, wasn’t I? I was creative, wasn’t I? Then why didn’t any of that translate into a job I loved and the bank account to match?

I took the whole thing very personally. I look back now and can see exactly how miserable I was. But back then I was in denial. I put up a fake front. I pretended not to care. I wasted lots of time on things that didn’t matter in an attempt to forget the pain.

The one thing that started me on the journey to where I am now was listening to my heart.

I wanted to be an interior designer. So I went back to design school part-time and eventually finished my design diploma. I got a few different jobs in the industry. And even though that might seem like it’s MILES away from what I do now, it was a very important part of my journey to my life purpose.

When I worked with my design clients, I would walk into a home and read the space. I could see insecurities, anxieties and trauma. I could see how people were hiding from themselves and their best lives. And on rare occasions, I’d meet with someone living their very best life!

I was using design as a tool for inner transformation–until I realized it was the inner transformation I really wanted to help people with!

Design might not seem like it “fits” the story of a life coach! But following my heart made me realize exactly who I am and what I was meant to do. I just couldn’t not do what I do. ????

The biggest advice I can tell anyone who’s seeking their life purpose is to just keep listening to what your soul is telling you. Your journey may not be linear but almost no one’s life works that way! We’re not here to figure it all out in one snap of the wrist. It’s all a journey which means we have to become okay with the idea of becoming. Growing, exploring and trying things out is all just part of the process.

In other words, it’s very much okay to not have it all figured out right now! In fact, most of us don’t. Although I’m happy with where I am right now, who am I to say this is it? Life is funny and it keeps evolving and I keep evolving right along with it. There’s no way to predict where this will all end up and that’s a beautiful thing.


Your Life Purpose: Untangling Your Mission, Passion + Career


Your Life Purpose Part #1:

Your Mission


We’re all born with a mission here for our time here on Planet Earth! However, not everyone’s mission is as grand as inventing a cure for cancer or eliminating starvation in Africa. Our actual purpose is usually a lot more ephemeral! After all, we are spiritual beings having a human experience. Our soul mission often has nothing to do with our career or schooling because we are so much bigger than that.

Your purpose is the thing you cannot help but do. It’s the underlying theme that comes up (in your jobs or elsewhere) over and over again. While we’d all love to know exactly what that is ahead of time, it usually takes us a while to notice! So try to look at it this way: if you can’t help but find it, then why stress about it? Take a deep breath and forgive yourself for not knowing everything. The journey really is just a beautiful part of life.


Your Passion


The truth is you’ll feel passion about a lot of things in life. However, not all of them will lead you to your purpose! But listening to your desires is how you unlock the mystery of you. If you don’t listen to what your soul is telling you, you’ll never find your true life purpose! So it’s key to create an ongoing dialogue with your own desires to make sure you’re forever moving in the right direction.


Your Life Purpose Part #2:

Your Career


It’s all too easy to feel out of touch with your life purpose when you’re not in love with your job! Ideally, we’d all love to make money doing exactly what we love but that’s just not the reality for most people. One of the most important take-aways for you is to understand that career doesn’t always mesh with your life purpose. Life purpose is about something bigger but it isn’t necessarily something we can make a living from.

So if you’re not wildly thrilled with your current job or career, it’s still okay! Sometimes a job really is just a job! It doesn’t have to be a life-changing undertaking to still serve a purpose in your life (ie. putting food on the table).


Your Life Purpose Part #3:

How To Find Your Life Purpose


If you’ve just graduated from college and are feeling utterly confused, I get you. I remember the pressure to just figure it all out now and feeling like a space alien because I just didn’t know. Looking back this all seems so ridiculous! Of course someone with extremely limited work experience wouldn’t have that much of an idea of where to go. We all put far too much pressure on people to hurry up and figure it out while they’re still so very young.

So why not take the pressure off? It’s much easier (and ultimately more productive) to approach this whole life thing as one big experiment. Say yes to the job you’re not sure about because you can figure it out later. Follow your heart to the new city or country because you can always move back. So often we’re too afraid to make these big moves because we feel like we have to have it all figured out! (Newsflash: no one has it all figured out.) The only true way you’ll figure out if you like something or not is by trying it out.

With all that in mind, there’s also no such thing as failure. Again, the fear of being seen as a failure can be debilitating. But any thought that’s keeping you from moving forward in your life is ultimately unhealthy for you. When you understand that failures are really just learning experiences, you’re now free to fail your way to what’s right for you. There’s no need to feel guilt or shame as long as you just keep moving forward.

From my personal experience, I can reassure you that finding your purpose is not nearly as hard as you think it is! You’re probably doing exactly what you’re meant to do without even realizing it. It’s that idea or essence that you just can’t stay away from no matter what you do (for you that could be design or being a great support for people around you or writing or accounting). So don’t stress so much about it! What’s meant for you will never miss you! Feel free to play and experiment your way through life without all the added pressure of “figuring it out”.




Journal Prompts For Finding Your Life Purpose:


What sparks my curiosity?

What makes me feel envious?

What am I fascinated by?

What is my heart pushing me towards?






Which part of your life purpose and passion are you struggling with? Does your career happen to overlap with your purpose (or not)? How are you going to pursue finding what your soul is truly after?

I hope this post inspires you to get curious about your own dreams while also taking the pressure off! Good luck & thank you so much for reading!



Jenn Stevens | The Aligned Life




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How To Connect With Your Higher Self

by: Jenn

How To Connect With Your Higher Self

How To Connect With Your Higher Self | Did you know that you have automatic and infinite access to a source of incredible wisdom? We all have the power to tune in and start accessing our Inner Voice. This is our connection with our Higher Self (the spiritual version of us). It’s an amazing resource and it’s 100% to use. So why not start using it? If you’re constantly looking outside of yourself for the answers, this is the episode for you!






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You're never lost, my darling!And things have ne You're never lost, my darling!And things have never gone wrong.Even when things don't LOOK the way you want them to, always remember:There is magic in this moment--and EVERY moment.So lock it in & double tap to AFFIRM it:I trust that I am right where I am mean to be! ✨✨
Right now, your SOUL is calling for your magic.S Right now, your SOUL is calling for your magic.So are you ready to answer the call?I know life doesn't seem so magical at times.And I also know that when you're down or feeling defeated it's REALLY EASY to forget one simple thing.The magic is IN you.And it always has been!Every time we tell ourselves that we're not strong enoughOr good enough or smart enoughOr that we need someone or something ELSE to swoop in and "fix" usWe're opting out of using OUR power.But none of that stuff means that you AREN'T magic.It simply means that you've FORGOTTEN and fallen out of touch.But every day brings us a new opportunity to connect with our TRUTH.So what are YOU going to do with your magic today?How can YOU decide to change your life for the better, even if only by the tiniest degree?If you feel like sharing, drop me a comment below!And if you need a little help unlocking your magic, then reach out! I'm looking for a few special souls who are ready to undo their old ways of being so they can BLOSSOM into their dream life. Is that you? Send me a DM to learn more!
The present creates the past.Or, in other words, The present creates the past.Or, in other words, your STORY about the who, the what, the why IS the only thing that matters.Mindset work won't change the facts of course.It's not going to go back in time to change things or make other people suddenly see the light.(Damnit!)But it can change the person you BECAME because of what happened.Sometimes we close ourselves off to our own miracles because we're clinging so hard to those old stories.When we think that because the past is set in stone, our stories have to stay the same too.I get it though! I used to be SHOCKINGLY ATTACHED to my sob story, firmly stuck in victim mode.All the time DREAMING about where I wanted to go--and confused as to why I wasn't there yet.Fortunately (after a lot of STRUGGLE) I opened my mind to change, massive shifts and MIRACLES.That's why I can tell you that getting stuck in wishing things were different cuts us off from both our power in the present and our ability to process.So know this my beautiful soul: the only liberation we need is our own.When you get brave enough to finally DO that, your whole world really will change.(& PS if you need a little help creating your own miracle, I have a few coaching spots open! Wanna learn more about how to apply this powerful work to your life? Send me a DM & let's chat!)
And now for a quick message from your Higher Self: And now for a quick message from your Higher Self:Love yourself enough to LET IT GOBreathe deep & have a happy Sunday my beautiful babes!

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