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Rich, Sexy + Spiritual AF: How To Create Life On Your Terms

by: Jenn

Rich, Sexy + Spiritual AF: How To Create Life On Your Terms

Confession time: I have quite a rebellious spirit. If someone tells me I can’t do something, that usually just makes me more determined to do it!

(It’s a Scorpio thing ☺️ )

But that rebellious spirit is exactly why I love challenging the status quo when it comes to creating an amazing life.

Our modern society is kind of a funny thing. We all like to think we’re pretty darn unique. Yet so many of us are trying to create a cookie-cutter sort of life!

When you step away from the expected, people actually have a lot of opinions about what your life “should” look like! For example:


If you’re spiritual there’s no WAY you can be rich or sexy.

If you’re sexy, it’s highly unlikely that you can also be spiritual or rich.

If you’re rich, you might be sexy but you definitely won’t be spiritual.

But why put limits on your awesome-ness levels?

Instead of upholding those ridiculously old-fashioned beliefs, it’s time to start dreaming of a better way to live!


It’s about time we all called bullshit on these outdated concepts. Why can’t you have your cake and eat it too?

Thinking that you can’t have it all is just a story that YOU are choosing to believe.

If you want to slay your life in every way, it’s time to change up the story!

It’s time to dream bigger.

So consider this post my call to arms! It’s time to stop settling for what you’ve been told is possible. If you want to be rich, sexy and spiritual then it’s time to do go out there and do it baby! So let’s get started:


Rich, Sexy + Spiritual AF: How To Create Life On Your Terms



On the surface, being rich, sexy and spiritual might seem like wildly different things. But it’s time to stop believing they’re mutually exclusive! When you really dive into what each component means, you’ll soon notice they actually have a lot in common:


Rich, Sexy + Spiritual Principle #1:

Why It’s Important To Be Rich


Money is a simply an extension of YOU. Which means if there’s not enough of it in your life right now, you’ve likely got some issues around self-worth to work on.

Not to say that it’s all your fault! Money is a tricky topic for many. While we’re all inherently involved in the pursuit of it, it’s also common to have some very mixed feelings about it.(“Money is the root of all evil”, “Rich people are greedy” etc etc,)

If deep down in your heart you believe that money is bad or that you’re a bad person for wanting it, then it’s going to be difficult to create a life of abundance!

Money isn’t powerful in itself! But it does amplify your power. If you’re spiritually inclined then it will do you and the whole world some good for you to have some more of it! Being rich means you can put your will into motion. Your money can support charities, small business, organic food etc etc. It can buy you yoga classes or let you volunteer abroad for six months. Money gets shit done! Becoming rich just allows you to create more of what you want to see in the world.


Rich, Sexy + Spiritual Principle #2:

Why It’s Important To Be Sexy


Just to be clear, the sexiness I’m referring to here is NOT about fitting into a size two, bleaching your teeth or getting Botox. If you have or want those things, great! But if not, don’t worry–this isn’t about fitting into one rigid idea of what attractiveness is.

The sexiness I’m talking about is all about attitude. The one trait all sexy people have in common is confidence.

When someone knows both who they are and what they want, they become downright irresistible.

We don’t want to spend time with people who are focused on the negative things in life! We want to be around people who inspire and energize us. When we see someone who’s totally living in their authenticity, it’s hard to keep our eyes off of them. That means real sexiness is about far more than your physical form! It’s about your mindset and your attitude, your ability to make life happen.

Basically, attractive people are always total bad-asses! So let’s up your sexiness levels. It’s time to get clear on your values. Establish those boundaries. Set those goals! The more self-actualized you are, the sexier you become. Period.


Rich, Sexy + Spiritual Principle #3:

Why It’s Important To Be Spiritual


Cultivating a relationship with spirit is a personal journey. While I’m not here to dictate what anyone should believe in, I deeply believe we’re all spiritual beings having a human experience.

In fact, I believe we’re all just parts of the same consciousness. Our human forms are misleading. We look different and we have a very limited perspective while we’re here. But ultimately we’re all important pieces of something that’s much bigger.

Spirituality is all about feeling connected. It’s about having purpose. It creates meaning. Without connection, purpose and meaning, we end up feeling lost.

When you trust in yourself and in the divine order of the Universe, you can surrender. While it’s wildly exciting to set goals and plan your life, it’s also important to own our limitations. We can control our perspective, our focus and our attitude. But there are many factors in life that are beyond us. Instead of wearing yourself out trying to micromanage every last detail in life, it feels pretty amazing to let go of the stuff that’s beyond you.

Deep down inside, you know you’re part of something bigger You’re not just here to do you, boo! You’re here to make a difference. For some, that means climbing Everest or starting a NGO. For others that’s volunteering their time or being the best mom on the block. But whatever it is, purpose and passion are the keys to an amazing life. So it’s important for you to connect with yours!




Don’t sell yourself short my darling! The only person who can really tell you you can’t do something is you! If you want to be rich, sexy and spiritual AF, then your time is now! Let’s go out there and make it happen.




Thank you so much for reading beautiful! As always I’d love to hear your comments and results, so drop them below. Much love & see you next week!




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You are magic itself.And your desires have meani You are magic itself.And your desires have meaning for the WORLD.So if you really KNEW that you were here to feel happy and do the things that bring you joy, what would you be doing differently?If you’re like me, it’s too easy to forget our true divine nature.It’s too easy to believe our worries and limitations more than we trust ourselves and this beautiful journey.But if you could trust your magic for just a moment, what would change?If you knew your dreams where a matter of WHEN not if, how would this moment be different?All the magic you ever needed is IN you already. All you need to do right now is TUNE into it!
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn
Identity shifting is KEY to manifesting.Because Identity shifting is KEY to manifesting.Because you ALWAYS manifest from your subconscious mind.Meaning you WILL play out old programs and ideas over and over again.Until YOU decide enough's enough! And do the work to REPROGRAM your mind to reflect what it you want and who you need to be.But sometimes, this work doesn't FEEL like it's doing anything.Those little tiny shifts on the inside are close to invisible--which might even make you doubt that it's happening at all.But trust me gorgeous, it IS.Keep taking tiny steps forward.Keep doubling down on who you WANT to be.TRUST the process and understandThat little by little, bit by bitIt all adds upUntil one day you look around and realize: I'm already there.
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn
What would it be like to TRULY be enough for yours What would it be like to TRULY be enough for yourself?💜To not CRAVE that outside approval or validation?To forget about other people's opinions or what they say behind your back?To not motivate yourself to move TOWARDS something only because you cannot stand where you are?This just goes to show that as much as we all LOATHE to admit it, so much of what we do is based off of artificially leveraging ourselves UP.If so-and-so would only say "good job"If that person would LOVE meIf I finally did [ insert arbitrary goal here ]THEN I could finally feel good and actually TRULY love myself.Sometimes we all get our wires crossed on this at times. (Myself included!)We focus on the future fantasy that our issues will MAGICALLY disappear once X/Y/Z happens.And we chase the things outside of us, forgetting that the ONLY place our true happiness lies is within ourselves.I'm here to warn you:You could run the whole race of life and NOT get what you think you need from other people.You could meet milestone after milestone and still NEVER feel like you measure up. 😩ORYou could start being enough, right here, right now.Enough = you as you are, flaws, mistakes and all.Enough = you without anyone else.Enough = you.💗Happy Thursday Conscious Creator friends!
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn
It's a FACT of life: you're simply NOT going to fe It's a FACT of life: you're simply NOT going to feel good all the time.And that's okay!Not gonna lie: the last month or so has been rough for me.The darkness of winter + strict lockdowns/limited holiday celebrations were TOUGH.I've definitely had my moments of letting it all get to me.But that doesn't mean anything has gone wrong.It doesn't mean that I'm somehow failing.And it definitely does NOT mean I'm putting more space between me and my manifestation goals.Even with the BEST of intentions, life is 50/50. Expecting perfection at any time will ONLY set you up for disappointment.Feeling frustrated, down, exhausted: those are all normal feelings for anyone experiencing a pandemic (plus general winter blues/ political chaos etc.)So while I don't want to create MORE of those feelings, I'm also not going to judge myself for having them.Making your feelings WRONG does not speed you up back into feeling better. It only creates self-loathing and resistance.Are you feeling the same? Here are a few things that are helping me right now:- Just letting myself cry if I feel like it (Sometimes 10 minutes of a good cry is a sufficient release!)
- Concentrating on pandemic-lockdown friendly goals that I CAN achieve (Doing pilates every day, meditation + Manifestation Journaling)
- Taking a break from drinking (I only drank about once a week anyway! But why not try going without it for a month?)
- Doing more behind-the-scenes entrepreneur stuff (The kinds of things that are so easy to put off for "someday")
- Using my SAD lamp every morning! (I only just got it but I swear it's helping)
- NOT judging myself too harshly if I suddenly don't feel up to doing the work I had planned or posting as much I "should" (Being an entrepreneur brings an EXTRA level of potential self-judgment that's hard to get out of at times.)This is all just a great example of one of the most important lessons of LIFE.You don't get to choose all your circumstances. But you DO get to choose what you do WITH them.What are you choosing to create right now? Whether you're in lockdown or not, I'd love to hear it!
The one constant in life is CHANGE.So you might The one constant in life is CHANGE.So you might as well get excited about it all and take the reigns of choosing WHAT you’re changing into.
Your choice: unconscious change vs becoming a Conscious CreatorWhat’s it going to be?
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with love + miracles ✨
~ Jenn

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