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6 Signs That Your Money Self-Worth Is Shockingly Low

by: Jenn

Money has been something I’ve always struggled with–to the point that being someone who struggled with money was just part of my identity.

I dreamed about making more but when it came down to actually making more of it, something always got in the way. (I couldn’t go for the job I really wanted because I didn’t have the training. My employers were cheap. The city was just too hard to make money in.) Etc etc etc.

I know that right now looking at those sentences it’s very easy to see how I was creating a story of scarcity and lack. But all of that stuff felt very real to me at the time.

And I suspect it might seem very real to you too, since you found your way to this post today!

So I really want you to know: that your money reality does not have to look the same way it always has.



We’re always the creators of our own stories. But we keep telling ourselves stories based on what’s already happened to us, instead of creating something new.



That’s just the way we were raised: with an I’ll Believe It When I See It mentality. That just makes sense to our human brains. It makes us feel like we’re doing the “right” thing.

But what happens when you believe without evidence?

What happens when you start writing a new money story that isn’t tied to your old money disappointments and negative programming?

It’s actually only when we can let go of our past limitations that we step into our true power as a Conscious Creator (aka manifestor!).

However, that’s easier said than done! When it comes to money, we all have a lot of money mindset baggage that we need to unpack.

Even if we don’t realize it! Quite often that money mindset stuff is all so well-ingrained that often we don’t even realize it’s there!

That’s the biggest problem with limiting beliefs: we truly believe in them, to the point that they just seem like cold hard facts, not things we’ve actually chosen for ourselves.

So just in case you’re wondering about whether your own money mindset needs a boost, I put together this guide to help you identity your own signs of low money self-worth.


6 Signs That Your Money Self-Worth Is Shockingly Low


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #1:

You Think You Need To Win The Lottery



I’ve talked to a lot of people over the years who are all looking to manifest more money! And quite a few of those people have the exact same dream: to win the lottery.

Winning the lotto might seem like the easiest breeziest way to change your money story fast. So I understand why people desire this. But after learning more about the energetics of money, now I can see why this desire is a money block unto itself.

Many people put their focus on trying to win the lottery because they don’t believe there’s any other way they can make money. That means this desire is forming out of desperation, not true desire! They believe the power to make money is separate from them. They’re only wanting this because they don’t trust themselves enough to figure out how to make or earn more money on their own.

So here’s a question for you to ponder: would you rather chance your way into winning a million dollars? Or would you rather learn how to earn that money yourself?

After all, if you learn how to do it yourself, then you become unfuckwithable when it comes to money. You truly learn that you generate your own fortune and that means you can generate more anytime you like. And in my mind, that is true self-worth when it comes to money, not lack and scarcity.


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #2:

You Blame Others For Your Finances



I get it: the money struggle is real! And blaming other people for your current situation feels justified in so many ways.

While I’m not one to deny that there are plenty of factors that affect our ability to earn and keep money, I’m also adamant that each and every one of us take full responsibility for our money story.

So yes it’s true: maybe you grew up “on the wrong side of the tracks”. Maybe your family had money issues. Maybe your socio-economic/racial background has a history of poverty.

Those things might be very true and real! But they’re also not a complete block to your success–unless you agree to make them so.

If you believe the story that your background or education or skin color matters more than you, then yes of course that’s going to hold you back. But there are people alive here on this planet who’ve overcome all kinds of adversity–which means those excuses are not objectively real.

Yes, it’s often easier to stay angry and to play the victim. It’s very easy to identify what’s standing in your way. And it’s downright difficult to see those same blocks and to take action anyway. But that’s a choice that every person gets to make for themselves, no matter who they are or what they’ve experienced. So if you’re choosing to play the victim, it might be worth questioning why.


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #3:

You Haven’t Asked For A Raise/Raised Your Prices



Haven’t received a raise in years? Or you’re tiptoeing around raising your current prices? That’s really just money fear in disguise–and a very obvious sign that your money self-worth is dangerously low.

Inflation is just a fact of life! That means our rent, food and life costs are slowly going up over time. So unless your salary is also going up over time, you’re actually going to be making less money than you were when you first began.

That might not have anything to do with you personally but here’s where it gets personal: your value is also going up over time. Even if you don’t technically get a promotion, you’ve clocked another solid year at doing what you do. That means you’ve gotten better. You’ve gotten faster and you’ve accumulated more knowledge.

It’s easy to forget all about that when everything else stays the same! But it’s true. And whether you’re an employee or an entrepreneur, you have to stay aware of your ever increasing value in the world. Ignoring or downplaying this is a very clear sign of low money self-worth.


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #4:

You Don’t Earn Enough To Take Care Of Yourself



You are a spiritual being having a human experience! But money is a basic fact of being human. We’ve simply incarnated in a world where we need money to pay for things.

However, money is still a heavily-weighted emotional topic. In particular, spiritual people and women struggle with their ability to earn money. Even though money rules the world, we still collectively look down on rich people in general. We stereotype them as being evil or greedy. And since we don’t want to be evil or greedy (and therefore remain lovable) then we subconsciously push the money away too.

But money in itself is neither good nor evil. Yes, it does amplify whoever it belongs to! But it doesn’t have any weird power of its own. That means you suddenly having a bunch of money won’t suddenly become someone different.

Those money issues run deep but please know this: there’s nothing wrong or shameful in simply wanting enough for your basic needs or the needs of your family. We shouldn’t have to hide our desires or pretend to want less than we do! If you don’t feel comfortable at least asking for what you want, then that’s a very big sign that your money self-worth needs a boost.


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #5:

You Don’t Dress Well


My friends, please don’t get huffy about this one before you hear me out! I’m definitely not the Style Police over here and I do not think my friends need to own the latest Gucci to sit at my table. (I’m wearing my comfy old Lululemon as I write this, for example!)

But there’s no arguing that the way we present ourselves to the world says a lot about how we feel about ourselves.

I want you to imagine for a moment, you at your wealthiest. You’re feeling good, doing amazing things in the world. You’re standing up straight and speaking with confidence. And you’re probably dressing like you actually matter right?

So now tell me: does your Corona daytime pajama outfit match up to that image–even remotely? Do your regular outfit choices make feel like your best, brightest, shiniest self? Are you showing up as your best self at any point during your week?

It doesn’t take a whole lot to feel comfortable and confident, even if you work from home! And if this concept feels completely foreign to you, then maybe it’s time to dig a little deeper. Because if you’re currently not feeling that great about what you see in the mirror, I’m going to guess you’re also not feeling that great about what’s in the bank account either! It’s not a separate issue. Everything is connected!


Signs Of Low Money Self-Worth #5:

You Don’t Think People Like You Can Be Rich



This one definitely applies if you have an Us Vs Them mentality when it comes to money. You always think that rich people just know something that you don’t. You may or may not like being on the team you’re on but the bigger issue is just seeing them as being two different types of people.

Of course, money isn’t everything in life! But if you have the desire for money and you fundamentally believe you can’t have the amount of money that you want, then that’s 100% a sign of low money self-worth.

Basically, you’re giving your power away to some invisible force that’s stronger than you. Because if you truly believe that you can’t ever be rich, you’re probably never going to try to actually become rich! But if wealth is something that you desire then you’re basically signing up to be unhappy forever with this type of mindset.



So tell me: which point resonated the most? What do you need the most help with when it comes to money mindset and manifestation?



Just remember that you don’t have to settle for living your same money story over and over again! Be brave, heal your money issues and give yourself permission to believe in something new for yourself. You might just be shocked at how quickly your money mindset can change!



Jenn Stevens | The Aligned Life



PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about abundance blocks or this one about 5 thoughts that are keeping you broke.



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6 Signs Your Money Self-Worth Is Shockingly Low

6 Signs Your Money Self-Worth Is Shockingly Low
6 Signs Your Money Self-Worth Is Shockingly Low

Money Mindset: 3 Conspiracy Theories That Keep You Poor

by: Jenn

Are you a spiritual person who struggles to keep money in your life? You’re not alone–and I really want you to know that this is not your fault! Money is a highly emotional issue and many of us feel very down about ourselves if the bank account is low. In this video, I’m sharing three conspiracy theories that have been keeping you poor and getting in the way of your ability to manifest money! The more you know the more power you have so let’s start taking that back today!





Thank you so much for watching!

Jenn Stevens | The Aligned Life



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Modern Girl Magic Episode #7: Magic And Your Money

by: Jenn

If you’re a spiritual type (and especially if you’re a spiritual entrepreneur!) then you might have a somewhat complicated relationship with money. On the one hand, you need it for survival (Duh!) but on the other hand, you have all kinds of guilt and fear of charging what you’re worth. In this episode, I’m talking all about magic, money, self-love and self-worth–and why YOU probably need to pick up your money game ASAP!

(PS – be sure to send this one to a friend who needs to hear it!!)



Thank you so much for listening! I’d love to hear your comments, questions or episode ideas in the comments below! ????

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Modern Girl Magic Podcast Episode #7: Magic + Your Money

5 Ways You’re Repelling Money

by: Jenn

Does this sound familiar: you’re trying to manifest money for yourself. You set the intention and you start to do the inner work.

But it just seems like no matter what you do, the money doesn’t come in. Instead of attracting, you mostly seem to be repelling money.

It’s not that manifesting doesn’t work. (In fact, you’ve probably had some great experiences manifesting some other things!). So what’s actually going on?

This is one of the most common frustrations of manifestors.


When you really (really) want something, you also accidentally make it really hard to call in.



That’s because you end up putting way too much importance on it, which is just another sneaky way of giving your own power away.

So if this scenario sounds familiar, don’t panic and keep reading! I’ve got some brilliant advice for you today.

It’s always key to remember that money is really just energy in another form! It’s neither good nor evil. It just is. But all the stories and drama we create around money and finances mean we’ve made it much bigger and scarier than it needs to be.

If there’s one takeaway you get from reading this make it this: freaking out about money is not going to help you attract it! The more you try to hoard it or obsess about getting it, the more it will continue to elude you.

With manifesting, it’s never about forcing the world to change to your will. It’s about becoming magnetic to your desires to the point that you attract in the very thing you want.

Those two energies are very different so be honest with yourself about what your thoughts, feelings and actions are actually saying! The message we think we’re sending is quite often very different from the reality.

However, the good news is that is that because money is energy, you are in complete control of your own relationship with money!

That means you don’t have to beat your head into the ground “trying” to figure out how to make more of it or how to keep it or how to stack it. As Yoda says, there is no try! Your relationship with money is of your own making. So the real question is: what are you going to do differently from now on in order to attract it to you?

If today’s finally the day for you to take your financial future into your own hands, then be sure to keep reading:


5 Ways You’re Repelling Money


Repelling Money Action #1:

You’re Giving Money Too Much Power

Putting money on a pedestal is hands-down one of the biggest reasons money continues to elude you! But you’re truly the one writing your own money rules. The moment you decided money was too scary and important for you to handle was the exact moment you gave your money power away! But that also means you can start to rewrite that relationship any time you like.

So get this part straight: money isn’t better than you (like even remotely!). It’s energy just like you are. But the more you pretend like you’re not worthy of it or that you don’t understand it or that you can’t handle it, the more money will agree with you. So today’s a good time to stop! No matter what your money history has been remember that your future doesn’t have to look like that! It’s time to become money’s friend instead of pretending you’re not on its energetic level. (You totally are. Duh.)


Repelling Money Action #2:

You’re Stuck In Chase Mode

Just like love, money isn’t something you can chase down and force to happen. So it’s time to give up that approach entirely! Instead of running at it, it’s time to attract it! You always run the risk of chasing something off when you run directly at it. So what can you do to encourage money to come to you instead of the other way around?

So what can you do to become attractive to money? Hint: this just means loving your money, paying attention to your money, nurturing your money. If your money story largely revolves around fear, then I guarantee that love, attention and nurture aren’t words you use around money at all!


Repelling Money Action #3:

You’re Controlling The How

Having a rigid of idea of how money can show up for you is another likely culprit repelling money away from you. Our own expectations can sometimes be our biggest limitations! But why put extra limits on money when there’s no reason for it? Staying away from the how is an important part of maximizing your money energy potential.

So ask yourself: do you only think money can come through certain channels (like only through your paycheck)? In reality, there are many options that money can come through: unexpected windfalls, side hustles, forgotten checks, gifts, new careers etc. But if all your money energy is focused on suddenly (randomly!) getting a raise, then it might be time to expand your money horizons! Get creative (because the Universe definitely is!).


Repelling Money Action #4:

You’re Avoiding/Ignoring Money

One of the biggest pitfalls I see with manifestors is falling into the avoidance trap! In other words, if you’re actively ignoring your own money issues you’re probably also going to have problems manifesting! After all, it’s hard to get on the same vibration as something that you’re actively fearing.

Ignoring and avoiding your money issues are tempting. But trust me–no matter how bad or big you think your money problems are, you have the ability to conquer them! Right now you’re just letting your fears get the best of you.

But the truth is your fears are never nearly as big and terrible as your brain makes them out to be. The sooner you start taking action and facing your money fears head on, the sooner you’ll be moving past them for good!


Repelling Money Action #5:

You’re Not Being Grateful

Not being grateful for the money you do have is another repellent energy that might be keeping money well away from you. It can be challenging to summon gratitude when your bank balance is $5.62. But gratitude is the energy of flow and abundance (whereas fear belongs to scarcity and lack).

So I challenge you to flip your attitude on its head right now: no matter what your bank account says or how much you owe, say a big thank you for money. Put that number or idea in your hear and be truly grateful for it! Remember, this number is fleeting. Being grateful now will not tie you to this bank account balance forever! Indeed, it will actually change your vibrational energy and make you more receptive to receiving more. So try it right now and watch the money miracles happen!



So tell me: which money mindset trick are you going to implement? Where do you think you’ve been blocking your money energy this whole time (and how are you going to change it)?




Don’t ever be fooled into thinking you can’t control your own relationship with money! As with everything else, you’re always the one writing the rules. If you’re serious about creating a change, then it’s time to start the journey to change: from the inside out.



Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life



PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about 5 reasons why the Law of Attraction isn’t working for you or this one about 40 small ways to massively transform your life.



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Money Mindset: How To Shift The Way You Think About Debt

by: Jenn

Money Mindset: How To Shift The Way You Think About Debt | Money is a huge issue for many of us and sometimes debt is part of that equation. But the way you think about money says a lot about your relationship with money. It’s all just energy after all! So if you have negative feelings about your debt, then it’s time to shift them into a space of love. That’s the only to move past fear into abundance!







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