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Is Someone Using The Law of Attraction On Me? 5 Signs That Someone is Manifesting You

by: Jenn

I know so many of you want to know how to use the Law of Attraction on someone specific. But did you ever think about the opposite side of this equation?

“How do you know if someone is using the Law of Attraction on me?”

Maybe someone just pops into your mind more than normal. Perhaps you keep crossing paths. Or perhaps you just want to know if the person who you like, likes you back!

Whether you’re just curious or have your own intentions about the situation, wondering if someone is manifesting you is only natural at times!

And while at first this might seem like Mission Impossible, there are actually ways to tell if this is happening!

First off, let’s get this clear: no one can actually control you, make you fall in love with them, make you do things that you don’t really want to do.

The important thing to know here is that energy can play telephone between two people. Have you ever thought about someone you haven’t seen in awhile only to have them suddenly text you out of the blue? That’s not just a coincidence! Basically, you were sending them an energetic ping across time and space. They became inspired to reach out because they suddenly thought of you–but in reality, you thought of them first. It just took a little time for your energetic message to be received.

This phenomenon isn’t really manifesting at all. It’s just energy at play, doing what it always does. However, if you’re curious if someone is manifesting you (whether that’s an ex, a crush or even someone you’ve never met IRL) then these signals and signs will be the best way to figure it out.


Is Someone Using The Law of Attraction On Me? 5 Signs That Someone is Manifesting You


Someone Is Manifesting You Sign #1:

They Suddenly Pop Into Your Mind


We are all energetic beings and we are actually a lot more tied into each other than we’ve been taught! But one of the ways this can manifest is through our thoughts. If someone is thinking about you a lot (like they would be if they were trying to manifest you!) you might find that that person suddenly “pops” into your mind out of nowhere.

This is a lot different than obsessing about someone yourself! It will feel more like a picture or something just randomly appeared in your mind–as if the Universe itself was trying to tell you something. (And it is!)

What’s really happening is that they’re just tuning into your frequency–and in turn, you are becoming aware of it. Please know that for most people this process is completely unintentional so it’s not like someone is trying to get into your mind.

However, if you’re curious if someone is trying to manifest you and you experience this phenomenon, you might just be right.


Someone Is Manifesting You Sign #2:

You Have Dreams About Them


Our dream state is another time where we are extremely open to the energy of the rest of the world. Essentially, we’re momentarily freed from our human state and we’re able to have spiritual experiences that most of us are not open to during our normal “muggle” time.

However, don’t get too excited about this one just yet! For example, if you just broke up with someone and you’re really wanting them back and you’re thinking about them a lot (especially right before bed time!) then no your dream doesn’t mean that they’re thinking about you. That’s just your brain doing some normal healthy processing.

But if you suddenly randomly dream about someone and there’s no big emotional charge around it, then yes, that could definitely be a sign that they were in fact thinking a lot about you.


Someone Is Manifesting You Sign #3:

They Suddenly Hear Them/Smell Them Etc.


One day you’re walking down the street and you suddenly hear a familiar voice. But when you turn around, you realize it was all just in your mind.

Most people think of psychic powers as being able to see or know things. But in reality, there are a few different ways to feel energy and experience a psychic connection.

One of those senses is clairaudience: being able to hear things that aren’t physically present. Perhaps you hear their voice or suddenly a song that reminds you of them pops into your mind.

Another is clairalience or the ability to smell something that’s not actually physically there. Perhaps you’re catching wafts of their signature scent?

Finally, there’s clairvoyance. Traditionally, this happens when you see a past or present vision of someone in your mind. But if you keep thinking you see someone while you’re out in public who turns out not to be them, that person might very well be thinking about you.

Again, just be honest with yourself here about where these sensations are truly coming from!


Someone Is Manifesting You Sign #4:

You Keep Running Into Them


Perhaps you know your friend from your neighborhood. But you find yourself out and about one day in an entirely different part of town and BOOM! There they are right in front of you.

Or maybe you randomly got seated near each other at a concert. Or perhaps you even find yourself randomly at the same (unusual) cafe at the same time.

When two people are tapping into the same energy, don’t be surprised to end up at the same place at the same time. This is a little bit of energetic alignment and a splash of help from the Universe.

But again, don’t get it twisted! This definitely doesn’t count if you’re repeatedly swinging by the bar where your crush works.


Someone Is Manifesting You Sign #5:

Your Mood Suddenly Shifts


Sudden emotional changes out of nowhere might not just be random events! Again, this might be a sign that someone is tuning into you energetically and that you are also “feeling” them. This is especially common for empaths and intuitive people. We pick up on other people’s energy when they’re around us and this can also happen “at a distance”.

If that person associates you with good thoughts (and let’s face it, if they’re trying to manifest you then this is probably the case!) then your sudden good mood might be the result of you picking up on those feelings yourself.

Knowing if this is what’s really going on for you requires self-honesty (like with all the other signs). Our mood can also be shifted by what you’re reading, listening to, the weather–all kinds of things! Be honest and eliminate other potential causes of your good mood first.



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So tell me: is someone manifesting you? Which signs are you experiencing?



In reality, we’re all energetic beings who are manifesting at all times! So when someone is thinking about you a lot, they’re manifesting you without even realizing it. So when you receive a sign, hold it in your heart but remember that you are still the one in control of your own world. After you receive the message, it’s now up to you to go and act on it.



Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life


PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about manifest a specific person or this one about 7 signs of manifestation.



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7 Signs That You Are About To Manifest Love

by: Jenn

Love. It’s what makes the world go round! Except it doesn’t feel all that rosy when you’re obsessing over where to find it. (And I know this is something you all struggle with since I still get all your messages about it!)

Of course, we all want to be loved and most of crave a long-term partner to share our life with. It’s only natural! However, I know that this longing can sometimes turn into fixation (or downright Love Zombie-ism! Eeek!).

So let me first reassure you that finding a soul mate isn’t something you have to struggle to do!

It’s actually happening all the time! We actually have a huge number of soul mates in this lifetime, although most of them are not of the romantic variety. We created soul contracts before we incarnated in this lifetime; that means we’re constantly encountering people that we’ve lived previous lives with (and learned lessons from before).

In other words, you can’t not find the people in life that you’re meant to! They’re all around you and on their way to you already, without you doing a single thing about it. Simply knowing that should take some of the pressure off.

However, I understand that even with my reassurance people still want to know when it’s going to happen. I’m no psychic! So I can’t tell you exactly when that will be for you. But I can help you to see the bigger picture when it comes to manifesting love, starting with these 7 signs that love is on its way to you.


7 Signs That You Are About To Manifest Love


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #1:

You’re Meeting Your Own Needs First


You’ve put in the work and done your healing. That means you’re not looking for someone outside of you to rescue you or to make your own issues go away. That’s a powerful step towards calling in your soul mate!

You know that famous scene in Jerry Maguire when Tom Cruise woos Renee Zellweger back the the declaration: “You complete me”? I hate that scene. The whole idea of needing someone else to complete us is incredibly damaging. Of course, a romantic relationship is a wonderful thing to experience. But as soon as you start making someone else entirely responsible for your own happiness, you’ve given all of your power away.

From an energetic and manifesting perspective, attempting to attract love from that space is difficult if not downright impossible! That’s because you’re trying to manifest from a space of lack: I don’t feel good by myself but if only I had a partner then I’d feel fine. So if you’re serious about finding love, you’ve also got to get serious about giving yourself exactly what you think is missing. It’s the only way you’ll be able to manifest what you really want.


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #2:

You’re Willing To Say No To Shiny Objects


Fact: while the Universe isn’t punishing you, it does like to throw you some tests from time to time. When it comes to matters of love, that means showing you someone that’s really close to what you want…but not quite right. Maybe that means they live far away or that they’re emotionally unavailable in one way or they don’t possess something that you place a lot of importance on.

Those shiny objects can be awfully tempting! When you’re feeling desperate for love, you’ll be far more likely to get tempted by those Shiny Object Tests. It’s only when you’re really clear about what you want that you’ll be able to attract exactly that into your life!

In terms of manifesting, that means two things: you need to double down on what you really want and you have to have faith that you deserve it and that it’s on its way to you. That means you’ll be able to spot anyone who’s Almost But Not Quite and keep holding space for your special someone.


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #3:

You’re Not Overly Fixated On One Person


Are you waiting for that one super-hot-yet-maddeningly-aloof Mr or Ms Right to wake up and ask you out already? My friend, that’s a huge red flag that you’re not in your own power.

Yes, having a crush can be an overwhelming (yet fun!) experience. (For more of my thoughts on that, check this out.) However, we must always accept reality at face value! If you’re continuing to hold out for someone who’s literally showing no interest in you, that’s a big sign that your own self-worth needs some work. Trust me, Mr or Ms Right will not be confusing or vague when they show up for you!

As soon as you stop trying to make the wrong person happen, you’ll have a lot more energy left for the actual right person!


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #4:

You’re Secure In Your Worth


At this point, you have a take it or leave it approach to love. Of course, if the right person showed up you’d jump right in with both feet! But you’re also wildly in love with your life exactly the way it is. You have lots of interests and goals and friends already and they all keep you very busy. You’re not sitting at home pining for Mr or Ms Right because you’re out there living your best life!

From an energetic standpoint, the proof is in the pudding! If you’re constantly claiming to want a relationship, yet you’re waiting for someone else to give you permission to live your best life, you might be waiting a long time.

Stop putting off the nice dresses and fancy dinners and vacations for “someday”. Start embodying your highest self now and you’ll become instantly magnetic to everything you’ve always wanted!


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #5:

You Feel That They Are Coming


I’m a huge believer in our inherent intuitive powers! And I also believe that the Universe is communicating with us at all times. So when you’ve had your inner breakthroughs, cleared your past energy and are truly ready to meet your next romantic interest, then you might start getting some signs. This could be dreams of a mysterious someone. It could be sensing their energy around you. Or it could be just a calm inner feeling of knowing. Intuition works a little bit differently for everyone! Your job is simply to listen.

Don’t be tempted to second guess what your intuition is telling you! Trust the signs and take solace in knowing that love is already on its way to you.


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #6:

You’ve Let Any Past Heartbreaks Go


Sure, your past is far from perfect! But the same applies to everyone else. At this point in time, you’re no longer wrapped up in the drama or holding grudges. While what happened to you might have been very painful at the time, these days you can see the bigger picture. You learned some valuable lessons from your experiences. And you are willing to admit that your past relationships were ultimately meant to be temporary experiences.

It’s very difficult indeed to embark on a new romantic relationship while still mourning an old one! Many people who are recently single tend to jump into things too fast for all kinds of reasons (to fill a void or because they feel like dating someone–anyone!–will heal their heart). Those kinds of relationships seldom last because they weren’t based on authenticity. It’s always in your future partner’s best interests to do your own healing work before they show up for you! Once again, energetically speaking, we’re always the most magnetic when we’re not looking for someone else to heal our inner wounds. So it’s time to leave your past where it belongs: behind you.


Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #7:

You See Signs From The Universe


We’re all receiving communication from the Universe at all times! Those little Divine Winks (as I call them) mean that you’re stepping into your true authenticity and magnetism. You’re making your best life happen! So it’s all just a sign to keep going.

Examples can be angel numbers (like 1111), personal symbols (mine is a red balloon) or synchronicities. Perhaps you’ll hear a certain song at a crucial moment, see a message written on a billboard or run into just the right person in a random circumstance. This isn’t a matter of forcing things. It’s a playful game that we all have access too! Don’t get too caught up on each symbol. Just know that the message that your intuition tells you about the experience is always the right one!



The most important thing to remember when manifesting love is that your partner is waiting for you, just as you’re waiting for them! Perhaps they have their own soul work that they need to finish before meeting you or the Universe is still currently conspiring about how to draw you two together. Either way, trust that manifesting love isn’t just about what you want. Every relationship is a partnership and that begins before you even meet each other in the natural world. So stay out of stress and desperation and remember to trust that everything is ultimately working out in your favor! (As it always does!)



Have you had success manifesting your soul mate? Or are you in the process? As always, I’d love to hear your stories and comments below!



Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life



PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about how to become rich, sexy and spiritual or this one about manifesting with angel numbers.



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7 Signs Your Manifestation Is On Its Way

by: Jenn

So you’ve set your manifestation intention. You’ve done the visualizations or or made yourself a sweet little vision board. You’ve written it down and held all that energy in your heart space trying to harness the energy of already having it.

But then comes the hard part.

Now what?

One of the most popular questions I get when it comes to manifesting is “When will my manifestation come true?”

Or, more accurately, “OMG I’ve already done alllll the things! Where on earth is it??”

Like I said, this is the hard part! And it’s easy to see why: when you’re excited, you’re also a bit impatient. You want things to just happen–right now–and at the very least, you want some evidence that they’re actually coming true.

Because of course, no one–not even the best psychic–can tell you this!The only true answer is: it depends.

I always say, manifesting only works as well as you do. That’s because so much of it is actually under your control. Think about your limiting beliefs, your emotional state, your ability to trust. All of these things are in that little brain of yours–not in the hands of the Universe.

Manifesting is actually easy AF. But we’re the hard part. So successful manifestation is really just all about the art of getting out of your own way.

It’s not hocus-pocus. It’s mindset and positive psychology and–the big one–actually just picking something to focus on! (So many people don’t even get that far!)

To make a long story short, no, I can’t tell you when and where your manifestation will arrive!


But the cool thing is that the Universe is probably already sending you some strong signals that you are on the right path.


Sometimes when you’re losing faith even the smallest hint from the Universe is enough to keep you going. But it helps to know what to look out for! Which is why I created this guide for you.

Want to know what those common manifestation signs are? Keep reading to get the lowdown on seven common types:


7 Signs Your Manifestation Is On Its Way


Manifestation Sign #1:

You’ll Receive A Test


As you might already be well aware of, many times on the road to successful manifesting also holds a test. But rest assured, this has nothing to do with your worthiness! It’s more about testing your readiness.

The Universe just wants to know just how serious you are about your desires before allowing the real deal to show up. So think of these moments as the Universe’s way of asking “So for real dude, are you sure you want this?”

Tests can take many forms. Sometimes things will appear to go wrong before they go right. Other times, you’ll get something that is closebutnotquite to what you really want to manifest. (Frustrating!)

But all of those situations are just a sign that you’re on the verge of making a breakthrough. You simply need to keep the faith through the darkness and turn away from anything that isn’t quite right.

This can be tough to do in practice but just remember that the Universe has already heard your desire. It’s already happening. You just need to hold space for when it does.


Manifestation Sign #2:

You See 1111 (or 111)


All repeating numbers (or angel numbers as they’re also known) have important meanings. But the numbers 1111 have a special symbolism that relates to manifestation. The numbers themselves literally represent two doorways: one for this world and one for the next.

That’s why the number 1111 symbolizes a literal connection with the Universe itself and more importantly, an opportunity that’s waiting for your. So seeing 1111 or 111 is a definite sign that the Universe is already hard at work for your desires. Pay attention when you notice this number sequence and be thankful when you happen to see it!


Manifestation Sign #3:

You Experience Synchronicity


Synchronicity is one my favorite manifestation signs! We’ve all experienced moments like this. Think about that time when you thought about an old friend and the next day they added you on Facebook. Or maybe once you were inspired to listen to an old favorite song and for the next week you hear that same song absolutely everywhere.

Those little signs are all evidence that the Universe is already playing with you! It’s just a very magical way of saying hello and reminding you that you’re always being supported. So pay attention to when those synchronicities start piling up faster and faster! That’s a sure sign that you’re on the right track.


Manifestation Sign #4:

You See Your Wish Everywhere


Sometimes when you want to manifest something, you’ll start to see it literally everywhere around you. For example, say you want the latest iPhone. It’ll suddenly seem to be on TV, over the radio at the grocery store, sitting across from you on the train. It’s not your imagination in overdrive and it’s not a mere coincidence!

Sometimes our reality gives us glimmers of what’s about to come to us. So these moments are visual proof that you’re manifesting your wish into your reality (even if it hasn’t quite arrived just yet). So get when you notice them! It’s a sure sign your manifestation wish is about to become your reality.


Manifestation Sign #5:

Stepping Stones Appear For You


Stepping stones are part of the path that is leading you towards your desire. But what does that mean, you might be wondering!

To expand on the synchronicity idea, the right people/places/things are being brought to you at exactly the right time! But they don’t always look exactly like our manifestation intention. Sometimes you’re just receiving one part of the bigger puzzle. So it’s your job to take the bait, knowing that your dream still lies at the end of the pathway.

If something shows up in your reality that appears to be taking you on a mission, then get happy and take the hint! It might not all make sense right now but often that’s the best way for magic to find us. Trust that the Universe definitely has plans for you and it’s simply up to you to take the hint.


Manifestation Sign #6:

You Receive Signs From Your Guides


Your spirit guides are always working with you, although you probably don’t notice their presence most of the time. But when your manifestation is just about to come true and you’re in danger of losing faith, they might just choose to make an appearance.

If you’re new to this idea, don’t worry! A ghost isn’t about to jump out of your closet. ????

Instead, our spirit guides like to send us little “love notes” or pop up as a voice that we hear in our mind. Perhaps you find feathers or coins, or maybe you randomly hear a song that has some lyrics that strike your heart. Or perhaps you seemingly hear two words, that hold some inspiration or knowledge. Whatever it might be, just be sure that you’re paying attention so you don’t miss the magic that’s close at hand.


Manifestation Sign #7:

You See A Rainbows Or Butterflies



Do you have something that reminds you of happy times in your past? It’s common to associate butterflies or rainbows (or unicorns or rabbits etc.) with moments of good fortune and happiness. Pay close attention to these things, even if they’re don’t always show up in the expected form! (For example, a picture of a rainbow instead of an actual rainbow etc.)

For example, Gabrielle Bernstein makes no secret about her love of owls. In her book The Universe Has Your Back, she shared a story that she was considering buying a house in upstate New York. But she was determined to see an owl first to know that it was the right decision. I won’t spoil the story for you but she did see the owl and in turn purchased the house!

When you are manifesting something into your world, you can feel free to ask for a sign like Gabby did. Or you can just become aware for the signs that might be popping up for you. (Hint: they change for different times in our life!)


BONUS Manifestation Sign:

You Just Feel It


The ultimate manifestation sign? Simply knowing that it’s going to happen of course! However this sign is up to you, not the outer world which is why it’s a bonus.

Achieving your manifestation often isn’t all fireworks and champagne corks. Often receiving our wishes goes hand in hand with a quiet confidence and sense of knowing.
There’s simply no doubt or worry left in your mind because you feel your intention with your whole heart.

We all want to achieve this state with manifesting–because of course, feeling comes before having! So your feelings can be the biggest sign of all!

Because when you already have that strong inner belief, you can also safely release your expectations. You’re so close to being there that you already surrendered to the process and that’s the real trick to manifestation. When you’re really feeling it, you truly know it’s all becoming real.




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So tell me: what signs of manifestation have you noticed lately? What usually happens to you before you manifest?



I hope this post gives you some peace of mind on your journey to manifesting! Always remember that you are truly a powerful being and so much of manifesting is really up to you. The biggest obstacle on your path is always your own self-doubt. So no matter what happens, stay strong and tune into your vision and eventually you will eventually get there.

Jenn Stevens The Aligned Life



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