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7 Signs That You Are About To Manifest Love

by: Jenn

Love. It’s what makes the world go round! Except it doesn’t feel all that rosy when you’re obsessing over where to find it. (And I know this is something you all struggle with since I still get all your messages about it!)

Of course, we all want to be loved and most of crave a long-term partner to share our life with. It’s only natural! However, I know that this longing can sometimes turn into fixation (or downright Love Zombie-ism! Eeek!).

So let me first reassure you that finding a soul mate isn’t something you have to struggle to do!

It’s actually happening all the time! We actually have a huge number of soul mates in this lifetime, although most of them are not of the romantic variety. We created soul contracts before we incarnated in this lifetime; that means we’re constantly encountering people that we’ve lived previous lives with (and learned lessons from before).

In other words, you can’t not find the people in life that you’re meant to! They’re all around you and on their way to you already, without you doing a single thing about it. Simply knowing that should take some of the pressure off.

However, I understand that even with my reassurance people still want to know when it’s going to happen. I’m no psychic! So I can’t tell you exactly when that will be for you. But I can help you to see the bigger picture when it comes to manifesting love, starting with these 7 signs that love is on its way to you.

7 Signs That You Are About To Manifest Love

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #1:

You’re Meeting Your Own Needs First

You’ve put in the work and done your healing. That means you’re not looking for someone outside of you to rescue you or to make your own issues go away. That’s a powerful step towards calling in your soul mate!

You know that famous scene in Jerry Maguire when Tom Cruise woos Renee Zellweger back the the declaration: “You complete me”? I hate that scene. The whole idea of needing someone else to complete us is incredibly damaging. Of course, a romantic relationship is a wonderful thing to experience. But as soon as you start making someone else entirely responsible for your own happiness, you’ve given all of your power away.

From an energetic and manifesting perspective, attempting to attract love from that space is difficult if not downright impossible! That’s because you’re trying to manifest from a space of lack: I don’t feel good by myself but if only I had a partner then I’d feel fine. So if you’re serious about finding love, you’ve also got to get serious about giving yourself exactly what you think is missing. It’s the only way you’ll be able to manifest what you really want.

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #2:

You’re Willing To Say No To Shiny Objects

Fact: while the Universe isn’t punishing you, it does like to throw you some tests from time to time. When it comes to matters of love, that means showing you someone that’s really close to what you want…but not quite right. Maybe that means they live far away or that they’re emotionally unavailable in one way or they don’t possess something that you place a lot of importance on.

Those shiny objects can be awfully tempting! When you’re feeling desperate for love, you’ll be far more likely to get tempted by those Shiny Object Tests. It’s only when you’re really clear about what you want that you’ll be able to attract exactly that into your life!

In terms of manifesting, that means two things: you need to double down on what you really want and you have to have faith that you deserve it and that it’s on its way to you. That means you’ll be able to spot anyone who’s Almost But Not Quite and keep holding space for your special someone.

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #3:

You’re Not Overly Fixated On One Person

Are you waiting for that one super-hot-yet-maddeningly-aloof Mr or Ms Right to wake up and ask you out already? My friend, that’s a huge red flag that you’re not in your own power.

Yes, having a crush can be an overwhelming (yet fun!) experience. (For more of my thoughts on that, check this out.) However, we must always accept reality at face value! If you’re continuing to hold out for someone who’s literally showing no interest in you, that’s a big sign that your own self-worth needs some work. Trust me, Mr or Ms Right will not be confusing or vague when they show up for you!

As soon as you stop trying to make the wrong person happen, you’ll have a lot more energy left for the actual right person!

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #4:

You’re Secure In Your Worth

At this point, you have a take it or leave it approach to love. Of course, if the right person showed up you’d jump right in with both feet! But you’re also wildly in love with your life exactly the way it is. You have lots of interests and goals and friends already and they all keep you very busy. You’re not sitting at home pining for Mr or Ms Right because you’re out there living your best life!

From an energetic standpoint, the proof is in the pudding! If you’re constantly claiming to want a relationship, yet you’re waiting for someone else to give you permission to live your best life, you might be waiting a long time.

Stop putting off the nice dresses and fancy dinners and vacations for “someday”. Start embodying your highest self now and you’ll become instantly magnetic to everything you’ve always wanted!

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #5:

You Feel That They Are Coming

I’m a huge believer in our inherent intuitive powers! And I also believe that the Universe is communicating with us at all times. So when you’ve had your inner breakthroughs, cleared your past energy and are truly ready to meet your next romantic interest, then you might start getting some signs. This could be dreams of a mysterious someone. It could be sensing their energy around you. Or it could be just a calm inner feeling of knowing. Intuition works a little bit differently for everyone! Your job is simply to listen.

Don’t be tempted to second guess what your intuition is telling you! Trust the signs and take solace in knowing that love is already on its way to you.

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #6:

You’ve Let Any Past Heartbreaks Go

Sure, your past is far from perfect! But the same applies to everyone else. At this point in time, you’re no longer wrapped up in the drama or holding grudges. While what happened to you might have been very painful at the time, these days you can see the bigger picture. You learned some valuable lessons from your experiences. And you are willing to admit that your past relationships were ultimately meant to be temporary experiences.

It’s very difficult indeed to embark on a new romantic relationship while still mourning an old one! Many people who are recently single tend to jump into things too fast for all kinds of reasons (to fill a void or because they feel like dating someone–anyone!–will heal their heart). Those kinds of relationships seldom last because they weren’t based on authenticity. It’s always in your future partner’s best interests to do your own healing work before they show up for you! Once again, energetically speaking, we’re always the most magnetic when we’re not looking for someone else to heal our inner wounds. So it’s time to leave your past where it belongs: behind you.

Sign That You Are About To Manifest Love #7:

You See Signs From The Universe

We’re all receiving communication from the Universe at all times! Those little Divine Winks (as I call them) mean that you’re stepping into your true authenticity and magnetism. You’re making your best life happen! So it’s all just a sign to keep going.

Examples can be angel numbers (like 1111), personal symbols (mine is a red balloon) or synchronicities. Perhaps you’ll hear a certain song at a crucial moment, see a message written on a billboard or run into just the right person in a random circumstance. This isn’t a matter of forcing things. It’s a playful game that we all have access too! Don’t get too caught up on each symbol. Just know that the message that your intuition tells you about the experience is always the right one!

The most important thing to remember when manifesting love is that your partner is waiting for you, just as you’re waiting for them! Perhaps they have their own soul work that they need to finish before meeting you or the Universe is still currently conspiring about how to draw you two together. Either way, trust that manifesting love isn’t just about what you want. Every relationship is a partnership and that begins before you even meet each other in the natural world. So stay out of stress and desperation and remember to trust that everything is ultimately working out in your favor! (As it always does!)

Have you had success manifesting your soul mate? Or are you in the process? As always, I’d love to hear your stories and comments below!

PS Looking for more? You might also want to check out this post about how to become rich, sexy and spiritual or this one about manifesting with angel numbers.

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How To Manifest Your Ex Back

by: Jenn

How To Manifest Your Ex Back | Looking to manifest your ex back? This is one of the most common requests I get but as you might have guessed, it’s not as easy as it appears!

The good news is it might be possible for you if you follow a few ground rules!

In this video, I share the things you need to do to make sure you’re not just getting back into an unhealthy situation plus share some advice on how to attract that person back and not appear desperate.

Thank you so much for watching!

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Video Transcript:

What’s up guys? Welcome back! Today I’m going to share with you one of my most highly requested videos ever. And that is how to manifest your ex back.

Hi guys! Welcome back to my channel! My name is Jenn. I am a life coach and Law of Attraction teacher and you have found my youtube channel. This is where I upload two new videos every week all about creating your best life ever. So if you want to make sure you don’t miss a thing make sure you hit that subscribe button.

Today I’m going to share with you one of my most highly requested topics and that is how to manifest your ex back. So if you watched my video on how to manifest a specific person into your life, you might know already that not everything I’m going to tell you today is going to be good news. But there really is some stuff in here that you can use if you are serious about manifesting your ex back. I really hope that these tips today will help you to do that successfully.

So let’s dive into the tips.

So tip number one for how to manifest your ex back is to know your why baby! We all have to know our why when it comes to manifesting. As I always say you can have anything you want in this world, as long as you know your why. So sometimes the reason that we want to manifest an ex back isn’t really in our highest interests. Sometimes we want to manifest an ex back because we haven’t yet dealt with the situation and we just want to go back to what we knew instead of going out on our own. Sometimes we feel like our ego is bruised and the only way we can make the ego whole again is to get that person to come back to us. Sometimes it just comes from a real place of loneliness and desperation.

So I really want you guys to check in with your selves and really ask yourself why you are trying to manifest your ex back. Because I have to say most of the time 99% percent of the time when you break up with somebody there is a valid reason for the breakup.

So manifesting your ex back you have to get really clear on why you want that to happen and really take into account the reason that you broke up and really think about whether this is going to be in your highest interest or whether you’re just acting out of a reaction mode and just trying to go back to something that you know because it is safe.

Tip number two for how to manifest your ex back: we just kind of touched on this in the first tip but I want to come back to this. Specifically there is a reason you broke up with your ex and I want you to get really honest about what that reason is and of course sometimes when you break up with somebody, the reason that you broke up isn’t the real reason. You know what I mean! So sometimes somebody is unhappy and they you know manifest that into exiting the relationship by finding a new person like there’s always something there like under need if you look under the layers.

It’s not the other person’s fault. It is something in the relationship wasn’t fulfilling them. You have to really do some deep diving and figuring out what wasn’t working because if you broke up with somebody something wasn’t working you guys. So I want you to get really clear on what that is and this is a two-parter.

Once you figure out what that is I want you to figure out whether you have grown past that. If you can come back to the relationship that’s a new person in a new way. Can your partner do that? Can your ex come back and act in any way? Because if you go back to what you were doing before the exact same thing we were doing before is going to end in the exact same way.

If you want to make a relationship work again you both have to come back to the table having worked on your stuff with a new attitude with new eyes and be able to handle whatever it was that got in your way the first time. So that is my tip number two for manifesting your ex back.

Tip number three for manifesting your ex back is to not be desperate. So whatever you do you guys I don’t want you to sit around at home wishing for that one person to call you. If you are feeling like that, if you’re feeling like there’s only one person in the world that can make you happy, that is basically a one-way trip to desperation town. And I don’t want you guys to go there. I don’t want you to put all of your eggs in one basket because that is not healthy for you and it will actually probably repel your ex more because it’s trapped them in.

You have to remember your value and you have to remember who you are as a person and that person is not sitting around at home waiting or for life to happen. So basically what I mean in this tip is don’t sit around and wait for that one person to call you. Go out there have fun with your friends. Go on some dates do something and just don’t sit around waiting for the phone to ring because that is a recipe for complete unhappiness and loneliness. And I don’t want you guys to go there! So get busy. Do something. Don’t be desperate. That is tip number three.

Tip number four and my final tip on how to manifest your ex back is to release and let go. And I know this is the part that people aren’t going to be happy with! Because you are trying not to release usually if you’re trying to manifest an ex back. But you really need to do this! This is an important part of manifestation and this is an important part of having a healthy relationship with another human. You have to understand that we can never control how anyone else acts or how anyone else feels. So I want you to become deeply deeply okay with the idea of your ex going out there and doing their own thing.

Because again the more you try to control somebody and the more you try to reel them in and jump on them and so like occupy their time, like they are going to feel that energetically before you get anywhere near them. Nobody wants to feel controlled. Nobody wants to feel like they can’t be themselves. So if you are trying to get your ex to come back and become the person they were before that isn’t going to work you have to let them be who they are now. And if you can truly love who they are now and they can learn to love you truly as you are right now then you guys might have a chance.

But if you were trying to constrict and contain and put them into this little box, you are just going to be met with rebellion. So you have to let them go and you have to let them fly and you have to know in your heart that if they were truly meant for you they will come back. You don’t have to worry about it! You can go along and live your life and know that they will come back. That one sentence can give you so much freedom and so much release from this pain that we put ourselves in.

So manifesting your ex back can really be just a trap of fear because we are too afraid to figure out life again. We are too afraid to figure out who we are again and that isn’t good. Life is all about progress and about expansion. You have to trust yourself that you are always on the right path and you have to trust that your ex is on the right path for them.

Perhaps your journey together has ended. Perhaps it hasn’t but you have to be prepared for the fact that maybe it’s over and that you just have to release and let go. After that if they come back to you and if you all have handled your issues and if you can come back to it with fresh eyes, then you might have an amazing chance to make a love happen again. It does happen so just be real and honest with yourself and make sure you’re coming from a good place and you will be able to figure this all out.

So I hope you guys found this video helpful I know this is a highly requested topic and honestly I think most people come to manifesting their ex back from a place of fear and that just never works. Because you always just end up manifesting more of what you are feeling so you have to get really clear really honest and if you are really willing to put in the work you can totally go out there and do that. But you also have to trust and believe in the fact that your ex is doing the same thing and if you can both come back to the relationship as your highest version of yourselves then you have a really great chance of making things work.

Thank you guys so much for watching this video! I hope you found it helpful. If you liked this video please give it a like. If you want to hear more from me, make sure you hit that subscribe button because again I have two new videos for you guys each and every week. If you want to learn more about me come on over to the site. I have a free manifestation starter kit for you guys to download over there if you sign up for updates. I’ll be back here soon in the next video so until then I’m wishing you the most amazing week ever! Go out there kick ass! Love yourselves. Don’t get too caught up in anybody you guys please don’t. And just remember get ready for the miracle. Namaste!

How To Manifest A Relationship

by: Jenn

There’s a reason we love romance books and rom-coms. We love love. It’s simply human nature to want someone to share your life, heart and soul with!

So it’s no wonder really that manifesting LOVE is my top request from you, dear readers.

Having a loving relationship in your life will always be one of the most common life goals! And there’s no shame in that. It’s basic human nature.

Of course, I’m fully committed to helping you manifest your desires.

So of course I’m happily committed to helping you manifest a relationship too.

Please know that this is totally possible for you!

Because whether it’s your long-lost love, current crush or a mystery person you’ve never met before, love can be hiding around almost any corner.

But before we get started, there’s just one thing I really want you to know today and that is:

You don’t have to wait for love!

Too many of us sit around thinking we have to wait for Mr or Mrs Right to show up. We mistakenly think we need that other person first in order to begin the experience of love.

The truth is love is available inside of you at all times. And the more you tap into that energy, the more love you’ll attract in the world around you.

As always, I use the Law of Attraction as an empowering experience. There’s no waiting when everything starts inside of you, right?

I also don’t want anyone to sit around waiting for someone to complete them or save them. If that’s what you’re really looking for, then it’s time to start doing that work all on your own.

But when you’re truly ready for long-lasting loving companionship, then you’re also ready to try out this step-by-step system to start calling in the One!

How To Manifest A Relationship

Manifest A Relationship Step #1:

Get Clear On Your Why

Again, craving a loving relationship is totally normal–and overall it’s an awesome manifesting goal to have! But, as I always say, you can have anything in the world as long as you know why you want it. So it’s time to ask yourself honestly: why are you really looking for love?

If you want a partner to travel through life with, wonderful! That’s totally cool. But if in your heart you’re actually looking for someone to save you (from your shitty job, finances, roommates, family etc.) then it’s time to do a little work to free yourself from those situations.

Similarly, if you’re trying to call in a relationship because your ex just got engaged, because you just think you should be in one by now or because you want your life to look great on Instagram, be honest about that. It’s not that you can’t call in a relationship in those situations but it might take a bit more work if your core vibration is fear, jealousy or anger.

Of course, it’s always best to come to love from a genuine sense of caring and wanting to be together, instead of from neediness or fear! So if this is resonating with you, then you know it’s time to put in some inner work to resolve the underlying issue.

Manifest A Relationship Step #2:

Write Your List

Clarity is key, to life, to love, to everything. Because if you really want the life of your dreams but you have to put in the work of figuring out what that is first!

Yet I still come across so many manifesters who haven’t actually bothered to figure out what they want. They want to manifest “love” or meeting “the One” but when you dig a little deeper, they’re not entirely sure what that looks like.

So let me ask you this: if you don’t know what you’re after, how is the Universe supposed to fulfill your request?

Instead of fearing this process, it’s time to get excited about placing our cosmic order! So I invite you to grab a notebook and start brainstorming. What are you looking for in a partner?

Write down everything that springs to mind at first (you can always edit it down later if need be). And remember that this is just a dreaming session right now so don’t hold back and–for the Universe’s sake–don’t censor yourself! Capture everything that springs to your mind instead of what you think you “should” be looking for.

You can write down as many details as you like (tall, dark and handsome etc.) but it’s also important to think about the big picture. How do you want this person to make you feel? Think about communication, emotional intelligence and common interests or activities. Right now you might think owning a nice car is a must-have but that’s an external quality (and that stuff can always come and go!) However, it’s hard to change someone who’s a non-communicative homebody into someone who’ll happily accompany you to your friends parties.

Knowing what will really make you happy is a powerful exercise in itself and will automatically make you more able to “see” what you want when you come across it.

Manifest A Relationship Step #3:

Become Who You Want To Attract

Now that you have your list in hand, it’s time to look at it with fresh eyes. It’s sounds a little crazy at first but the best way to attract what you want in a relationship is to become it yourself.

Of course, this only makes sense from a Law of Attraction standpoint. You get back what you put out there. So the question is: what are you putting out there?

At the end of the day, a lot of the attraction in love is about completion. While birds of a feather do flock together, sometimes we’re attracted to people because of what they represent: freedom, strength, youth etc. Our subconscious looks at them and (like in When Harry Met Sally) says “I’ll have what she’s having!” But instead of doing the work ourselves, we go about falling in love with that person instead.

So whatever it is that you’re ultimately looking for: think about how you can better provide that to yourself. Maybe you need to work on your health regime or start boosting your bank account. There’s a reason you want the things you do! Uncovering the reason is actually reveals an awful lot about us.

Manifest A Relationship Step #4:

Embody Love

Again, with the Law of Attraction, you always attract what you put out there. So if you’re looking for love, it’s time to start working on your love vibrations!

The truth is romantic relationships just give us an excuse to open up our heart chakra. But that experience is ultimately inside of us. Yup! Those ooey-gooey-good falling in love vibe is actually our own creation. We just don’t exercise that part of us unless we have a human excuse!.

But don’t worry. I’m not suggesting that you have to do hours upon hours of heart chakra opening exercises to get into that state. The point here is simply to understand that we are the ones who control our experience of love. So why not start embracing and emitting all those loving vibes right now?

This isn’t nearly as weird as it sounds at first! You can spread those vibes around without anyone being the wiser (on a conscious level anyway). Make it a habit throughout your day to send love to the people around you: your boss, the cashier at the grocery store, your roommate, whoever. You can do this on the fly or make it more formal ceremony by conducting a Mettā (loving kindness) meditation. Start to look at your love energy as a gift and get ready to bestow it on the world!

While those around you might never be aware of what you’re doing, just sit back and watch what happens! This really does make a difference in how people perceive you. Ultimately, the more love you give the more you’ll get so don’t hesitate to give yours to the world!

Manifest A Relationship Step #5:

Hold Space

Sometimes saying yes to your happiness also means saying no to certain opportunities. That means sticking to your guns and focusing on what you ultimately want in a relationship! Not every person who arrives in your life will be that person so you have to take an honest look at what’s in front of you.

Ladies, listen up, because this is especially for you: people don’t change. Too many of us have a fairytale view of what love can do. (“He’ll stop acting like that once he knows how much I care!”) Thinking someone will magically change into who you want is living in denial–and one of fastest ways to block your own relationship manifesting.

Of course, humans are still gonna human! They’ll make mistakes and not show up as their most brilliant selves at times. But it’s crucial to understand the difference between a mistake and someone who is just not emotionally invested in your relationship (like…at all). A fairytale that exists inside your own mind is just that…a fairytale!

So be honest with yourself and take a good look at what’s happening in your world. If someone isn’t worth your time, then don’t be afraid to move on! Saying no is often the most magnetic move of all. Your dream person is waiting for you–but you’ll just be waiting longer to find them if you’re wasting your time with Mr Okay But Definitely Not Right.

So tell me: where are you at in your manifesting a relationship journey? Which manifesting tip are you going to use today?

I hope this post changes the way you look at love and empowers you to go out there and start creating it for yourself today! You deserve love my darling. So go out there and start creating it.

PS – Want more? You might also want to check out this post about how unconditional love can change your life or this one about the top 5 most common love blocks.

7 Signs That You Are About To Manifest Love