The way you think about yourself is everything when it comes to manifestation. I always hear stories from readers that sound like: “I want to manifest money/love/etc but I can’t because X/Y/Z.” I know they can’t see it but it’s my job as a Holistic Manifestation Coach to point out that believing in those excuses is the problem.
If this sounds like you, it’s time to come back to remembering who you really are! Remembering your power is always the first step towards consciously creating your life. Watch this training if you need a reminder!
In This Episode:
+ Learn why most excuses are just limiting beliefs
+ Find out what to focus on when you’re stuck in your story
+ Remember your power as a Conscious Creator
+ So much more!
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today on ask a coach we are talking about self-belief really that means just believing in yourself so much that you’re not going to let anything else in the outside world get in your way this is something that so many of you struggle with so i know you’re gonna love this so keep watching
hello beautiful soul and welcome back my name is jen stevens i’m a special life and business coach and i’d love to welcome you to my youtube channel today this is where every single week i bring you a brand new uplifting video that is all about transforming your life by using the twin tools of mindset and manifestation i am here as a resource to help you create an extraordinary life and if that sounds like something that you want to be a part of then go ahead and hit that subscribe button so today in ask a coach i’m doing another sort of generic kind of question because i see this so often and so many of the questions you guys send me so anytime i see something that’s like hey jen i really want to manifest some money but there aren’t any jobs in my field right now i live in a small town et cetera et cetera et cetera or hey jen i really want to find my amazing romantic partner but i’m too old everyone’s married the town i live in doesn’t have any good men anytime i hear anyone say this stuff it’s like okay you really have to go back to the beginning and start to remember your power as a conscious creator so the interesting thing is is that i’m always talking about how we create our reality and how your beliefs are reflected out in the world around you so when someone has a question like this i know it seems so real i know it seems so legitimate to them but i can see from my outside perspective none of these things actually have to be an excuse and that the person who is complaining about them is the one who is opting in to having that problem so if you are the one having that problem though i know how infuriating that sounds i know you’re going to be like well it’s true there aren’t any jobs out there or there aren’t any single men in my town or whatever the excuse is so that is why i’m here that is why manifestation coaches exist because i totally understand what it is like to be inside your own story so much that you cannot see out of it you cannot see how you are also creating your own blocks right now you might be in this position where you are single or looking for a job and you’re thinking that there’s a reason why it hasn’t happened yet but the thing is if you are writing that down and sending that into me and repeating it to yourself all day long you are basically creating that story so of course your brain is incredible at filtering information the reticular activating system is going to find patterns that you decide on that is the key you decide on them it’s not the outside world it is you deciding on them so it’s like that thing when you buy a red car and suddenly you see red cars everywhere there were red cars there the entire time it’s just now your brain is thinking about red car so it starts to see those cars in the world when it comes to manifesting if you are thinking there’s no jobs out there then that is what your brain is going to pick up on all the evidence of how there aren’t any jobs out there or how there aren’t any good men out there or whatever the story is it really is all in here it really is all in your mind and so many manifestation questions are like this it’s like everyone wants to be uniquely broken everyone is like okay but i can’t do that i can’t really do that because my circumstance is different i can’t really have the money i can’t really have the man because i live here and i do this and i came from this background or whatever so if this is you if you’ve ever had a complaint like this if this is you then this is what you need to start to work on okay so my job here is to remind you of your incredible power as a conscious creator that means somebody who is consciously creating their reality instead of just settling for what is in their sphere right now so we all have the option to do this right we can start to consciously go after what we want in life or we can settle for the illusion that that is not possible and that we do not have that right now by you complaining about these um things that are happening in the world around you you are basically opting in to the illusion of lack right now basically what’s happening is you are allowing your current reality to dictate your future results right so you were saying that because i don’t see anybody around me now or i don’t know what the job is going to be that you are not even going to open your mind to the possibility that there is more out there and that is exactly how people stay stuck and perpetuate a problem that will prevent them from manifesting so do you see what i mean you see that the problem exists you dwell on the problem and then that is all you see in the world and that prevents you from moving forward the important thing to remember is that that is not an actual accurate reflection of your potential you are a conscious creator and you get to decide on what you want and you get to go after it but part of that is believing in yourself believing in yourself and believing in your potential so much that it doesn’t matter what the results are right now that it doesn’t matter that you don’t really know what the job is going to be or who the guy is going to be you are going to go all in on believing that you are going to get what you want this is the self-belief concept idea choosing to dwell on those issues instead of on what you are capable of will trap you in this moment it will make you feel like the world is working against you and that it’ll create that victim story that poor me story of like well manifestation might work for everyone else but it’s not going to work for me because of this it can work for you but you need to learn how to get out of your own way and remember that you are the one in charge so i know this is really difficult to do because we are told that we can’t believe in things until we see them in our reality and that’s the exact opposite way that you want to think as a manifester remember that you are the one that’s creating the story you are creating the world and it takes a little while for that world to become reflected in your reality around you but i guarantee you if you’re holding on to the excuses and the stories and the lack mentality it is going to probably never manifest for you it is up to you to start to remember again that you are powerful that you are a creator and you are actually creating all the time that’s why i always say i’m not really a manifestation teacher because you are already manifesting what i’m teaching you how to do is how to do it consciously so when you are holding on to the story of lack you are trapping yourself in that story so anytime i see one of these questions this is exactly what you need to do come back and remember that you are the conscious creator you are the one writing the story so if this is you if this is resonating i want you to just you know every time you feel that excuse and that story and that negative loop coming up i want you to start to ask like how can what i want be true how is it possible that there’s another job out here even in my small town how is it possible that i can make more money how is it possible that i could find an amazing person to date can you see any evidence of maybe something new coming in to the town someone new coming in to date um have you met anybody that has recently started to date a new amazing person if you take those blinders off and stop committing to those stories you will start to see that the things that you were so sure of before are not actually 100 true and that’s the thing there’s very little in this world that is 100 true all the time which means you get to decide which side of the fence you want to be on the side looking at the abundance or the side looking at the lack most of us have a real problem understanding just how powerful we are we are waiting for the outside world to show us we are waiting for the job or the money or the person to tell us that we’re amazing so i’m gonna need you to remember that it is up to you to start the story now become the hero now start standing up for yourself reaffirming what you want reaffirming who you want to be when you can do that no matter what is happening that is when the magic happens right because we’re not waiting for the thing to come so then we can give ourselves permission to feel good we are giving ourselves permission right now without the thing without any evidence of the thing and showing up as that person and that is what creates that magnetism i hope that this helped reframe your self-concept around manifestation i hope that you are noticing maybe your stories of lack and scarcity and how you’re getting in your own way and i just really want you to remember that the next time you make up that story of i can’t have this because that is the exact same thing that you need to work on and that is really just a big sign that you have forgotten who you really are you have forgotten your power and you just need to come back and watch this video over and over again so that you remember that okay so that is it for today’s training thank you guys so much for watching if you want to learn more about manifestation and my unique trauma-informed approach to manifestation come on over and join me inside recode manifestation academy that is where i’m giving you all the tools you need to manifest your best life including optimum health manifest money manifest love all the things and it’s all in there for just 22 a month so please come over and hang out with me in there if you’re interested in learning more if you like this video today please go ahead and give me a like and other than that i’ll be back here in the next week’s training so until then happy self-concept forming happy manifesting and i will see you soon