Think you can’t get everything you want in life?
Think again! Simply believing that you can’t is in fact your biggest barrier to actually having it. But this isn’t your fault! Our parents, teachers, the media etc. does a really good job in this way: reigning in our desires and dreams and telling us to play a little smaller.
None of that was done to purposefully harm us of course! But there’s no denying that it’s a huge problem. That’s why I consider a big part of my job as coach and teacher to simply be about helping people unlearn all the negative programming they’ve picked up over the years.
Similarly, the things that we want are never as far away as we imagine them to be. Creating the life of your dreams is really just a matter of realizing that it’s possible. Once you open the doors to the magic, life has a funny way of flowing its way straight to you.
If you’re truly ready to level up and get everything you want in life, these 8 tips will get you started:
How To Get Everything You Want In Life
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #1:
As a reformed non-goal maker, I’ve got to stress the importance of this one! Being intentional and really deciding on what you want is so important to being a Conscious Creator! The world is full of noise; so much so that it’s sometimes hard to stay focused on our own desires. Becoming conscious isn’t a one time thing! It’s about creating the habit of being intentional, each and every day.
So let’s get in the habit! You can set tiny intentions all day long: for how you want your commute, workout or meeting to go. It’s one tiny action that has truly major effects!
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #2:
Build Up Your Worthiness
In a culture that literally profits from our low levels of self-worth, loving on yourself is a truly radical act. But it’s true: every time you turn on the TV you are bombarded by psychological warfare, telling you that you’re not enough the way you are. It takes some conscious and consistent effort to undo all that damage! I could write a whole post about how to increase your worthiness (and I probably will) but for now please just know that you were born inherently worthy! It’s time to dig into your thoughts and beliefs that say otherwise to begin the healing process.
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #3:
Learn The Art Of Acceptance
Learning to love yourself also means learning to love your imperfect past and present. We’ve all made mistakes but the most important thing to know is that those mistakes have turned you into the beautiful person you are today! Too many of us are wandering around carrying the burdens of our past. But perfection doesn’t exist and no one gets through life without a few disappointments. Instead of berating yourself, learn to accept yourself just as you are, bruises and all. The guilt and shame just weigh you down and there’s really no reason to take all that negativity to where you want to go.
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #4:
It’s a fact: we live in a culture of outrage. Calling people out and being low-key angry is far too socially acceptable! But please don’t ever forget that your thoughts and words truly count. What you focus on will always expand. After all, that’s where you’re choosing to send your energy. So do you really want to moan and groan about the little things in life?
Sure, we don’t live in a perfect world. You’re going to come up against bumps in the road from time to time. But you also don’t have to rage against them! Accepting things as they are and moving on is ultimately the best choice for your precious energy.
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #5:
Action is an integral piece of the Law of Attraction! But this isn’t about scrambling around and acting out of desperation. It’s about moving forward with total faith, but also doing everything you can in the earthly realm. Taking action is just a strong indication of your determination and sincerity about your goals.
Just don’t let the action freak you out! When it comes to big goals, we often underestimate the power of small steps. But even tiny bits of progress can really add up over time! Just make sure that you’re truly working towards whatever it is that you want for yourself, each and every day.
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #6:
No matter how much money, adulation, fame etc. that you call into your life, it will all be for nothing if you don’t appreciate what you already have! Culturally, we’re all far too future-focused. While it’s important to be intentional and have goals, it’s also crucial that you stop to appreciate what you’ve already got and how far you’ve come.
So if you haven’t already, it’s time to make gratitude a daily habit. Spend some time each and every day thinking of something in your life and truly feeling gratitude for it. (I like to set an alarm on my phone to remind me of this!) Just start to embrace gratitude as part of your regular routine.
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #7:
We used to think that once a human grew up that was it; their capacity for growth was already fulfilled. Fortunately, these days we know better! We all have the power to learn new things all the time. But have you embraced the growth? The more curious you can be about yourself, the more you’ll be able to unleash your powerful authenticity! Never let not knowing how to do something stop you. We have unlimited learning resources these days and you really can consciously change anything you decide to! Embracing the learning process will help uplevel your life at lightning speed!
Get Everything You Want In Life Tip #8:
Stop Limiting Your Potential
Over time, most of us get caught up in pretty rigid ideas of who we are and what we can do. But those ideas become a small little box that ultimately undermines us. You need to stop judging your future potential based on your past! Most of us tend to think we can only accomplish so much instead of pushing ourselves to the next level. While trying something new or putting in some extra effort can be scary, don’t you also want to find out just how much you’re capable of? Stop telling yourself that you’re “bad with money”, “not good on camera” etc. and start pushing yourself to get a little uncomfortable. See if you can rewrite your own story. After all, you’ll only be able to fly if you can first jump out of the nest!
So tell me: what tip made the biggest difference for you? How are you going to incorporate these techniques into your life? (Like starting today!)
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences with this! Drop a comment below or send me a message. And, as always, thank you so much for being here Starshine! Now go out there and start wowing yourself.