It’s the biggest catch-22 in the manifesting world! How are you supposed to want something while you also release your attachment to it? In this video, I explain the Jedi mind trick behind it all that will help you bust through this and finally manifest your dreams!
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Video Transcript: Become Detached To Manifest Anything
So it’s one of the most frustrating pieces of manifesting advice I’ve ever been given!
It is if you want to manifest something you also have to know how to detach from it.
So this becomes a big catch 22 in manifesting. Like how am I supposed to want something and yet not really care if I get it or not?
And so in this video I’m going to clear up any confusion you might have about that topic and get you back on the manifesting superhighway. So if you want to find out how to do that then be sure to keep watching!
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As I said at the top of the video it is so confusing when you’re first in the world of manifestation: How are you supposed to have an intention, decide on what you want and go after it and also be totally detached from the outcome?
For me this was a big thing to wrap my brain around and I know it is a really difficult thing for most people. Because most of us have a really hard time detaching. Actually we put so much importance and so much emphasis on what we want that we really kind of give it more importance than it really needs to have and that therefore also pushes the thing away.
So please listen to this video carefully and please really try to understand if you are doing this! If you are doing this, then start to switch your thinking. Start to switch your mindset over and start to look at the situation in a new way because I promise you that once you start to do that that will clear the space for it to actually come through.
It is really beneficial for you to do this work! But first let’s talk about this. We all tend to want to manifest things into our life sometimes from a place of lack. So what do I mean by that? I mean that you are even though you’re doing a spiritual practice (and you’re using a spiritual tool like manifesting) that sometimes the reasons why you are doing something aren’t really all that great for you.
This would be like I’m trying to manifest the new Chanel bag because if I have a Chanel bag then these people at work or these people I went to school with will be impressed and think I’m really cool etc etc.
So you’re still using something outside of you. You’re still going after the Chanel bag for a reason that comes from what’s your what you’re feeling inside of you. So you’re feeling like these people are judging you or not accepting you or rejected you in the past and you want to feel better about yourself. But instead of healing that wound or instead of making yourself feel better from the inside, you are still looking for that external thing to do the work for you.
That then creates a problem because now you are putting such a big expectation on getting this bag and what will happen actually get this bag. But that’s really not what you want! What you really want is just to feel good about yourself. What you really want is just to love yourself and accept yourself the way you are. So that’s one thing to think about.
You need to understand where your motivation is coming from and if your motivation is coming from a place like this where you’re trying to get one up on somebody, when you’re trying to prove something to somebody, when you’re trying to make somebody jealous, when you’re trying to teach someone a lesson…all of that kind of thinking means that there’s way more attached to your goal than you’re admitting to yourself.
You are making this one thing the (the ring on your finger, the car, the corner office, whatever it is) you’re going after you’re making that be your redemption. And the only person that can really redeem you is you. You can give yourself permission to do that you can heal yourself. You can you know heal those wounds from the inside out. Then the stuff from your past or from your present even won’t bother you so much.
That just shows you how it can be difficult to detach from something. Because you created this create storyline around it and you’re attaching more meaning to it than you’re even admitting to yourself.
So of course it’s gonna be hard to detach from it when you have this giant expectation wrapped around your manifestation–which of course is going to be difficult to do that because basically you’re doing this for the wrong reasons.
Again you are trying to heal yourself from the outside and you are trying to make other people think differently of you which is a game none of us can ever win.
There’s all kinds of things going wrong with this scenario that will not ultimately make you happy and you have to remember that at the end of the day, you’re doing this to make yourself happy. So make yourself happy and don’t worry about what other people think and don’t try to do something to impress someone else like that.
You have to really remember that as you go through this process. So that’s my giant caveat when it comes to manifesting because I think a lot of people get stuck on that just because they’re not being honest with themselves.
They’re not admitting where their motivations are. They’re not admitting why they really want something. So of course then it’s difficult to detach from the outcome! Because you are making that one outcome your whole medicine, the whole way that you can see forward to get better.
I’m telling you this right now because I want you to understand there is another way to get better. There’s another way to heal. There’s another way to move past all that judgment and resentment and bitterness and whatever else you’re feeling. But only you can discover that. You cannot wait for these people to give it to you. You need to give it to yourself.
So that’s the first thing to think about!
The second thing I want you guys to know about the art of detaching in order to manifest your desires is that you have access to every single feeling that you want in the world right now.
Okay so when I talk about manifesting, I talk about embodying who you want to be, about moving yourself up in the timeline, about, you know, creating such a magnetism between who you are and what you want that the thing cannot help but show up for you.
It isn’t about sitting around and waiting for something to fall out of the sky while you do nothing. It is about becoming the person that you want to be. So when you’re in this state and you’re manifesting something for the right reasons and you are working on collapsing timelines and you’re working on getting energetically aligned with something, you can think about what you want to think about your manifestation intention and then think about how that’s going to make you feel.
The cool thing is now that you know this now that you can understand your brain, understand your mindset, now you also know that you can just go over here and get the feeling without having anything to do with this right? So if you can walk opt over here, walk over here pull, you’re feeling this pull up the feeling that you want.
Walk around wearing that feeling. Then guess what? You are detaching from the thing because the thing is no longer necessary for you to feel the way you want to feel.
You have already chosen the way you want to feel. You are already wearing your feelings. You’re already in the feeling cabinet with however you want to feel, whether that’s joy or satisfaction or whatever it is. You can get there right now. You can do something today. You can do something in the next hour that will make you feel like that.
So understanding how that works is it creates detachment because again you’re understanding that you do not have to wait for the thing to come to you in order to feel the way you want to. And when you don’t have to wait for something to come to you then it doesn’t really matter if it actually comes.
It can show up or it cannot show up but it doesn’t matter because you have the feeling already. You’re already feeling exactly how you want to feel and that is the most important thing of all.
So that is my real trick my real Jedi mind trick for getting on the other side of detachment. If you are feeling it confused about manifesting, if you don’t understand how to detach from your desire then please think about the two things I shared with you today. Really try to understand where your desire is coming from. Understand why you want the thing you do and be really honest with yourself.
Because again if you’re creating this whole redemption story for yourself because of this one thing coming into your life you are setting yourself up for disappointment and you are also pushing your manifestation away.
So you really want to be clear on that stuff first. The second thing is you want to understand that you always have control over your feelings. You can always feel any way you want to in the world. There is always something you can do today to feel exactly as good as you would feel with your manifestation intention.
So the more you practice feeling that way, the more you exert control over your feelings, the less attached they’re going to feel to this external thing, the less that thing is even going to matter to you.
Because you already know how to get what you really want which is the feeling and funnily enough that’s usually when the manifestation comes in. It’s when you really understand this.
Like I would actually go as far it won’t come to you until you get this it won’t come to you until you can detach it won’t come to you till you are already feeling exactly the way you want to which is just another way of embodying the person you want to be with the thing in your life so please think about that please apply all of these principles to your life and please come back here and let me know how it goes because I know this stuff is tricky I know it’s trips me up several times and I really hope this video can clear up any confusion that might be lingering around the idea of detaching from what you want in order to manifest your dreams so thank you guys so much for hanging out with me it’s a day I really appreciate your support here if you like this video please give it a like if you have a friend that could use this message pass it along to them that would really do me a lot of good if you want to know more about me come on over to the site.
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