I know what it looks like: that some people are born lucky or just have a natural knack for manifesting.
Things seem to happen for them just like magic. But that can be frustrating to the rest of us!
First off, let me assure you, it’s not simply a matter of luck. You weren’t born with it or without it.
You largely create your own magic. You decide on the way you see the world, good or bad. And you decide on whether you want to play with the energy around you or whether you want to beg, plead or manipulate it.
Living magically is a choice. It’s an outlook. An attitude.
And if the choice is yours, why wouldn’t you choose to live with more magic?
The funny thing is that many people don’t. Despite their real inner desires, they insist on thinking that magic is too complicated or somehow beyond them.
But neither of those things are true–unless you make them true!
Living magically is how we all want to live. We all want synchronicities to just line up for us.
It makes things easier. And it makes life more fun.
I mean doesn’t this sound good?
- You pull into a crowded mall parking lot and someone begins to back out of their spot right as you approach it
- One day you’re thinking you need to meet a certain leader in your industry, and at a dinner party you attend the next week, you randomly meet them
- Or you’re in a bookstore looking for advice on a certain topic and a relevant book falls off the shelf in front of you
Here’s a recent personal story:
I recently received a bill in the mail. While I was expecting it, I didn’t know what the amount would be. And as I held the envelope in my hands I thought, “I’ll be happy if this is less than €100”. And the amount? €95! (Of course now I wish I’d thought of a lower number!)
Obviously, this was probably some accurate guessing on my part but I still thought it was a good lesson to share here. I was happy for the service I received and happy to pay. Instead of dreading or resisting it, I turned receiving the bill into a fun game.
And that’s a choice that we all have the power to make.
So if you want to make magic chase you, today I’m giving you four different solutions that’ll make you totally magnetic.
4 Ways To Make Magic Chase You
1. Keep Your Vibe Up
Your vibe attracts your tribe as they say, as well as everything else in the world around you! So don’t forget for a second that your energy matters. Your life is a direct reflection of your feelings and beliefs. I know that’s a tough pill to swallow when things are shit but it’s the truth.
We all know someone who cannot seem to stop complaining. Now how does your energy feel after spending time with them? Probably pretty low, since I’m sure you fell automatically into the role of trying to cheer them up (and failing). Their low vibe also lowered yours and left you feeling depleted. Who wants to have that happen time and time again? Well the Universe feels the same way. It’s going to be more inclined to stick around people that happy, grateful and open to the co-creation process and as well as to those who have a playful attitude.
Never forget that magic and manifesting is supposed to be fun and easy, not rigid and strict! So make an effort to lift up your energy and you’ll attract more of that happiness and synchronicity right back to you.
(Get some more ideas on how to raise your vibe here.)
2. Aim For Alignment
Are your actions supporting your thoughts, feelings and desires? For most of us, we say and think one thing while acting in a completely different manner.
That’s because while we all crave change, we also prefer the default of the world we already know. So while our hearts and minds have moved on, our physical body does the same thing it did yesterday and the day before.
We tend to live much of life on this unintentional autopilot. And of course, to the outside viewer (and the Universe) this behavior makes it seem like maybe you don’t really want what you say you want after all. It’s a disconnect.
Staying in alignment takes some real strength and self-awareness. And don’t be too hard on yourself if it doesn’t happen overnight! We’re all a work in progress so just do the best you can. But once you start to notice all the ways that you’re getting in your own way, it’ll become that much easier to make more positive choices in the future.
3. Stay Grateful
Have you ever given a gift to someone who was totally not appreciative of it? Let me tell you first hand, it doesn’t feel good! And it certainly didn’t make me want to give that person a gift ever again!
So don’t treat the Universe like that! If you never stop to say thanks for what you’ve got, it’s going to look like you don’t really appreciate the gifts you’ve already been given. Why should the Universe give you even more stuff if you don’t even notice what you’ve already got?
It doesn’t matter where you’re at. We all have something to be grateful for: a warm flat, clean water, a shower with great pressure, healthy food etc etc. If you’re reading this post, you’re already one of the lucky citizens of the world with a computer or phone!
So as much as you want change in your life, don’t stay overly focused on the things you don’t have. There’ll always be something more that you want in life and if you don’t learn how to be happy in the present moment, you’ll never find happiness!
4. Release Control
Are you a control freak? I know I can be. And I also know that being controlling is the wrong attitude when it comes to magic and manifesting.
Why? For one thing, we only try to control things when we think they won’t work without our help. In other words, magical micromanaging suggests a lack of faith in either your abilities or in the magic capabilities of the Universe.
Secondly, the dynamics of manifesting are the same as anywhere else! Think about your micromanaging superior at work. The more they stand over you and try to micro-control your work, the less you probably feel like working, right? When you feel pushed to do something, our automatic reaction is to resist. So don’t do that with your manifesting!
Set as many intentions as you like but at the end of the day, you have to let go with complete faith that some things are just out of your hands. (And trust me, the Universe is smart. So it’s way better that way!)
I hope this post helps you have fun and create more magic in your every day life! Remember nothing is more powerful than you are. So have a little confidence in yourself and go after what you really want.
Thank you so much for reading! I 💜 you all.